About Me
I’m Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen, a writer and blogger in Vancouver, BC, Canada. Also known as The Adventurous Writer, I created six “Quips and Tips” blogs and wrote five “Quips and Tips” ebooks.
Quips and Tips for Healing and Hope is my newest blog – my mission in life is to help people live in harmony with chronic illness. Not just cope with disease, but live in harmony and accept how it changes our lives.
This blog ties in with my work as a full-time MSW (Master’s of Social Work) student at the University of British Columbia (UBC). I’m doing my practicum with the Alzheimer Society of Vancouver.
My intention is to encourage people coping with all types of illnesses to share their stories and gain insight and support from each other. I’ll share my insights from my MSW courses and practicum, as well as my experience living with ulcerative colitis, infertility, and my schizophrenic mother.
I believe living in harmony with chronic illness is better than fighting it – and I welcome your thoughts on this! I’d love to hear your opinion, whether or not you agree with me.
You probably didn’t know…
- I lived in Kenya, East Africa for three years. I taught Language Arts and Journalism at Rosslyn Academy – an American school in Nairobi.
- My degrees are in Education and Psychology from the University of Alberta.
- As a freelance writer, I’ve written for a wide range of publications, including Reader’s Digest, Woman’s Day, MSN Health, Natural Health, Spirituality & Health, and sometimes More. I also wrote monthly articles for BC Women’s Hospital in Vancouver.
- I earn a living from my “Quips and Tips” blogs and ebooks.
- I’m a full-time grad student at the University of British Columbia (UBC), in Vancouver. I’m working towards my MSW (Master’s of Social Work) – I want to get a job in a hospital or clinic, counseling patients who have been diagnosed with chronic illness.
- My husband and I can’t have kids because of azoospermia, and chose not to get fertility treatments (other than IUI, which is a simple little procedure).
And, I want to share your story! Go to How Do You Live With Chronic Disease? Stories From Survivors.
My “Quips and Tips” Blogs
Quips and Tips for Achieving Your Goals covers everything from overcoming career obstacles to making more money. Articles range from toilet training your cat to the best investments for your money. This site helps readers achieve their personal, professional, and financial goals.
Quips and Tips for Successful Writers is all about writing, editing, getting published — and blogging! There, I combine quips from famous published writers with practical writing advice. I write about everything from how to grab your reader by the throat to reasons book manuscripts are rejected.
Quips and Tips for Love and Relationships blends my two favorite topics: love and money. There, I weave finances with relationships — and all articles contain practical money and love tips for couples. My most popular article on that site is about dealing with a toxic ex-wife.
Quips and Tips for Couples Coping With Infertility — because infertility is a drag, but it doesn’t have to make us bitter, angry, or depressed. My husband and I are riding the infertility roller coaster, but it hasn’t destroyed our dreams or crushed our spirits. On that site, I write articles about getting pregnant, dealing with childlessness, and even improving sperm count.
Quips and Tips From the Working World is where you’ll find job profiles and interviews with people at work, such as private investigators, casting directors, university professors, and B & B owners. Each profile includes the best and worst parts of the job, career tips, salary expectations, and education requirements.
Quips and Tips for Giving Gifts was created to help people buy the right gift for the right occasion.
I can’t keep up with all these blogs – especially now that I’m on a temporary contract with Big Brothers of Greater Vancouver until September, when I’ll be a full-time student. So, they just exist….but they’re not growing.
And finally, I wrote five Quips and Tips ebooks, ranging from surviving pet loss to making money blogging.
To learn more about me (as if this weren’t enough!), visit The Adventurous Writer.
Want to connect with me? Use the comments section below…
Blessings,
Laurie







Hi Laura,
Thanks for your comments! I’m glad you found the article helpful, and hope to meet up with you again online sometime.
Blessings,
Laurie
Laurie,
Thanks for sharing your article about adult children. There is not much written in this subject area and it really helped put a positive light on feeling pressures and upset from parents as an adult. It still happens where they control you if you have no control yourself. Happy Writing.
Hi Roger,
Thanks for taking the time to comment, and for your valuable feedback on my ebook! You’re right, I should gear my tips towards both men and women. I will check out the website you mentioned – and perhaps interview someone there when I update that ebook.
I wish you all the best as you heal and find happiness in your life.
Sincerely,
Laurie
Hi there, I purchased your book 75 ways to let go of someone. I am about 4 months out of a 5 year relationship. So while things inside of me have settled down somewhat I certainly have my down days, like today. So I bought the book and have been reading over it. There are certainly some good suggestions.
One thing that jumped out at me was noticing that the advice for living an abusive relationship was geared completely towards women. I noticed this because the relationship I left was because of the abuse from my X. I would like to suggest that you check out a web site called “A Shrink 4 Men”, I feel you might find this site very enlightening, and the info there will fit in very nicely with what you are suggesting people can do to help themselves. I want to thank you again for your contribution to my healing heart,mind and soul…..it is a journey……Roger
Thank you so much for your comments, cgmckeever, I’m so glad I could help you. You made my day!
Laurie – I want to thank you for this positive blog. Your passion and determination shine. Your article about when to put a loved pet down helped me into the mindset and then has been a guidepost after .. Thank you
Hi Lisa,
Congratulations on turning 40 soon — you’re just embarking on the BEST part of your life! Forty brings wisdom, peace, happiness, and a more positive, self-confident perspective.
I’m sending positive energy your way
Blessings,
Laurie
What a wonderful attitude you have. I am turning 40 soon and hope I can have some of your positive energy about this momentous occasion.