Comments on: Can Trust Your Boyfriend After He Cheated? 5 Ways to Tell

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 12 May 2013 22:38:42 +0000

Jenny, thanks for your comments! I see you wrote an article about trusting your boyfriend after he cheated, as well. I liked your tips. I don’t comment on Blogger blogs anymore, because there are so many problems with posting the comment. But I really liked your article

By: Jenny

Jenny — Fri, 10 May 2013 02:51:37 +0000

Your article is very helpful for people who are going through such unfortunate incidents. When you said “Don’t let fear or insecurity trap you in a bad relationship,” I realized that insecurity only makes you unhappy, which makes your boyfriend unhappy, resulting in both sides unhappy.
I recommend another article helpful for those who’re coping with trust issues. Insecurity is indeed hard to overcome.

By: Laurie

Laurie — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 16:23:42 +0000

Why can’t you talk to your friends about trusting your boyfriend? If they’re warning you to be careful because he might cheat, then I think you need to listen to their advice. I don’t know you at all; your friends know you and him, and can give you better advice about trusting your boyfriend!

What are they telling you?

By: Pooja

Pooja — Tue, 23 Apr 2013 12:15:05 +0000

hey guys,
am actually in a relationship wit a guy for almost 2 years.. everythin is goin good between us.. recently few of my frenz came up telling that my guy doent keep our sex life personal.. i spoke to him bou this ,but everytime he makes me feel comfortable by tellin that he loves me truely and he would never do such things even in his dream… but people around me keep warning me to be careful … i love him very truely, and he makes me feel even he does…. but i have no idea whatz cookin behind the screens.. am not in a postion to trust anyone, and i cant find any traces of he cheating me… i cant speak bou this to any of my frenz………. i seriously need a help as am going thru a rough patch…..plzzzzzzzzzz

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 14 Apr 2013 13:10:57 +0000

Dear Dorothy, It really is sickening when a father and partner cheats, isn't it? Especially when he blames you. Trusting him again will take years. Will your boyfriend work hard to regain your trust? Is he fully committed to making your relationship work, and rebuilding it from the ground up? Does he want to marry you? I wrote this article for you: 5 Signs Your Boyfriend Will Cheat on You Again I hope it helps. It won't give you the hope you're looking for, but it may help you see your relationship more clearly. I welcome your thoughts! Blessings, Laurie

By: dorothy

dorothy — Tue, 26 Mar 2013 18:22:36 +0000

I just found out that my boyfriend of almost 3 years cheated on me his past New Years. I found a video of him and some girl, I am so sickened. I I have a 7 month old with him, I know he cheated on me before when we just started talking and he has talked and flirted with other women, he is know to have a really long past with woman, he’ a FIREFIGHTER.
He claims he did this because he was filling a void, he said iI didnt pay him enough attention when having sex or initiate it enough..NOW, we have sex pretty often and I thought it was really good, I know I am not as experianced, but come on…no reason to cheat…he doesnt even seem that apologetic, I hate this feeling of being betrayed… We are trying to work on our relatioship, and I KNOW I am probaly just asking for more heartache, but I wanna believe people can change and I am worth that change, especially since we have beautiful child with eachother… I guess I am just looking for hope.. Can people really change and we will I be able to trust him again…
Should he let me see his cell phone if that would help me trust him??
Please Help!

By: Laurie

Laurie — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 21:30:53 +0000

Dear Jennifer,

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! I agree that if your relationship constantly keeps you guessing, then you definitely need to move on. No man is worth handing over your self-respect and dignity – no matter how persuasive or attractive he is.

It’s super hard to let go of a man, but it’s more painful in the long run to hold on to him.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Sun, 24 Feb 2013 01:50:42 +0000

I am feeling very sad reading all the posts. I recently discovered my long distance boyfriend of 2 years has kept accounts to various online dating sites and met two women in person. He said they only went out for dinner. At first I decided to forgive him and give the relationship a second chance but then I realized the relationship is never gonna be the same again. I was hesitant at what to do next. After reading all the posts on here I realize that I need to end the relationship!! Women, be kind to yourself. Don’t you want to live in peace? If the relationship keeps you constantly guessing then end it.

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sat, 15 Dec 2012 18:10:00 +0000

Maybe it’s not a question of CAN you trust your boyfriend after he cheated, but Do You WANT to Trust Him? You relationship will never be the same; do you really want to continue the way things are?

Will your relationship ever go back to normal? No. It’ll never be the same. But, it could be better and stronger. It just takes alot of work — especially on your boyfriend’s part — to rebuild trust.

By: Nina

Nina — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 21:07:14 +0000

My bf and i have been together for 3 years. He cheated on me 2x the 1st year and 2x durinf my pregnancy and 2x this past year. He’s defensive about his phone and fb account. He claims the only reason he talks to his ex is because shes suicidal and he needs tto look out for her -_-. And he aaborted their child and is jealous of our child.