Comments on: Unfaithful Boyfriends – 7 Signs of Betrayal in Love

By: Petra Mulder

Petra Mulder — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 17:39:27 +0000

Hi, Maybe you can give me some direction.. Ive been with a man for over 5yrs, broke up 10 times and now back together with the big proposal (after being engaged for 3yrs – 3 times). This time, date is set, future planned and no turning back! The problem is… had 6mnths to do planning on big day, nothing till now! Time running out, 1 month to go, when I sit him down to discuss the matter to finalize the event, there is arguments and excuses (money, time etc) He feels that I put him under presure and everything will happen in faith! I just can not trust the situation nor him. Please tell me what I should do, he say he loves me and want to marry me, but can not give me a proper commitment. I have been married 3x before and dont want to go through the same mistake again. I also have to change my religion to his, which Im busy doing….
Hope to hear from you soon>

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 16:10:48 +0000

Dear J,

Thank you for sharing your story here – I appreciate it! It’s always tough to know what to do when you’re in love, especially when it seems like your guy isn’t as invested or interested as you are.

Here are my thoughts about your relationship:

Is He Right for You? Signs It’s Time to Stop Dating Him

I hope it helps, and welcome your thoughts and questions.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: J

Thu, 16 Jun 2011 02:33:21 +0000

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months and i dont know why but i feel like im always doubting him back and forth. i dont know how honest he is with me and usually i have to text him everyday about how hes doing or call to say hello. he wrote me a long text about how im the best girl and he loves me so much but when it comes to saying the words out loud he has a hard time. i try to be cute and lovey dovey cuz thats just how i am but this always makes him say to stop with the corny stuff. ive been contemplating breaking up but i keep going back and forth. the thing that really annoys me is that hed rather hang with his friends and he texts all the time but always away from me. occasionaly he’ll show me a text from one of his buddies but i dont know if i should suspect this as being ususual behavior or im just paranoid. what should i do?

By: blah blah blah ;p

blah blah blah ;p — Sun, 27 Feb 2011 02:27:10 +0000

I am single but am talking to an old boyfriend..
I really like him but the thing is he is with my BEST FRIEND!!
I know I shouldn’t talk to him.. but i can’t hep it..
I really really like him!
I want to tell her but don’t want her to hate me…
What do I do??

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 16:29:57 +0000

Yes, I definitely that is a form of betrayal and disrespect.

By: Spouse Cheat

Spouse Cheat — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 09:53:36 +0000

Lawrie, i’m very interested to know what your take on spouses watching pornography? is it a sign of betreyal?
Thank you.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Sun, 09 May 2010 20:28:45 +0000

Hi Cy,

You know your boyfriend loves you when you feel totally secure with him, and you totally trust him not to betray you or cheat on you. When your boyfriend loves you, he’ll put you first and do everything he can to make you happy.

I hope this helps…if you have a more specific question, please ask!

Laurie
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By: cy

cy — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 22:03:29 +0000

how do u know that ur boyfriend loves u?