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These songs about breaking up with someone you love are all reader suggestions – so whether you’re looking for angry breakup music or sad, heartbroken breakup music, then you can’t miss this playlist! They’re the real deal.

These breakup songs are from people who are coping with broken hearts, separations, divorces, and saying good-bye to loved ones. And here’s why I wrote this article — it’s a comment from a reader on The Best Songs for Broken Hearts – Music to Heal Heartache.

“Those are all good songs to break up by, but obviously, the person who wrote the above article, as well as the people commenting, are not into country music.” ~ C.

When I made my original list of breakup songs, I didn’t include country music, rap, or anything other than the run-of-the-mill rock ‘n roll and pop songs. But, that list of breakup music worked for some readers:

“Wow, it’s like you stole my mp3 player and posted the saddest songs,” said Chris. “This is a great list! My favorite would have to be Avril Lavigne’s “So Much for My Happy Ending.”

But I wanted to make a complete playlist of songs for every ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend who is sad or heartbroken…so here it is…

Songs About Breaking Up With Someone You Love

“The song that has helped me get through my pending divorce is “Better in Time” by Leona Lewis. The lyrics are so very true when you are no longer with someone you have been with most of your life. I recommend it to anyone trying to move on after a breakup.” – Vida

“Better in Time” by Leona Lewis is one of my faves.
“But “Not Gon’ Cry” by Mary J. Blige is one of the BEST songs for singles.
“Since U Been Gone” Kelly Clarkson too.
Shelly also says, ”It depends on your situation though.”

“Walk Away” by Ben Harper
“Where I Stood” by Missy Higgins – Anonymous

“Over It” by Katherine McPhee – Brittany

“Out From Under” by Britney Spears – Carly

“It is You” by Dana Glover

Tina also says, “Because I love it and I love the way it makes me feel.”

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“Growing up to do” By Joshua Radin
“Violens” by Joey Cape
“Moving On” by Deals Gone Bad
“Wasted Days” by The Slackers – Joe

“These are all good songs to break up by, but obviously, the person who wrote the article about breakup songs, as well as the people commenting, are not into country music. Hank Snow’s “I Don’t Hurt Anymore” is a real good, feel good song for surviving a breakup, as well as his “I’m Movin’ On” and “The Golden Rocket”, both very dated train songs. Also, during the “crying in my beer” phase of a break up, there are countless older country songs for singles. Just about anything by Hank Williams, Sr., such as “Your Cheatin’ Heart”, or “I Can’t Help It If I’m Still In Love With You.”

From a lady’s perspective, try Kitty Wells, Tammy Wynette, Loretta Lynn and others. Believe me, you’ll find plenty of great break up songs no matter what phase you’re in of being newly single. It doesn’t matter so much how a song is played, just listen to the words. That’s why they call it the “blues.” – C.

“Over You” by Acceptance
“Starts with Goodbye” by Carrie Underwood
“Look at Me Now” by DJ Jessy – Reema

“It really depends on your case/situation. My my ex broke us up (cos he’s still in love with his ex and his friends don’t like me for spending more time with him than them like he used to) …here are my best sad, heartbroken, and angry breakup songs and music to help you let go of someone you love

“You’ll See” by Madonna
“My Happy Ending” by Avril Lavigne
“What Goes Around Comes Around” by Justin Timberlake (one of my favorite music singles)
“Better Off Alone” by Katharine McPhee
“Deep Inside of You” by Third Eye Blind
“All Good Things” by Mandy Moore
“The Scientist” by Coldplay
“White Flag” by Dido
“See Ya” by Atomic Kitten
“I Never Really Loved You Anyway” by The Corrs
“Before He Cheats” by Carrie Underwood
“Wake Up Call” by Maroon 5
“Bottom of The Ocean” by Miley Cyrus
“One of These Days” by Michelle Branch
“Be Be Your Love” by Rachael Yamagata
“Soon” by Leann Rimes
“I Quit” by Hepburn
”Hollaback Girl” by Gwen Stefani – Elly

“Apologize” by One Republic
”Some Hearts” by Carrie Underwood
”White Horse” – Taylor Swift

“After my very first boyfriend broke up with me, I made a playlist of music singles that I listened to over and over. Here are a few of the songs on it:

“Keep Holding On” – Avril Lavigne
“Used To” – Chris Daughtry
“Hero” – Enrique Iglesias
“Come Clean” – Hillary Duff
“You Raise Me Up” – Josh Groban
“Because of You” – Kelly Clarkson
“I Hope You Dance” – Lee Ann Womack
“All Good Things Come to an End” – Nelly Furtado
“Let It Be” – Beatles
“You Can’t Hurry Love” – Phil Collins – Morgan

“PS. I’m Still Not Over You” by Rihanna

“Broken Hearted Girl” by Beyonce – Heather

“You’re not sorry” by Taylor Swift – Veronica

“So Much for Pretending” by Bryan White – “This song slims a five year relationship down to four minutes for me.”

“How Do You Like Me Now” by Toby Keith – “This is a very uplifting kinda haha I’m gonna be ok and prove it to you kinda song”

“Perfect” by Smashing Pumpkins – This breakup songs and music kinda puts it in a prospective of it’s over but maybe next life we will get it right.” – Joseph

“Think Twice” by Celine Dion is my favorite break up song. – Nedira

“Forget It” by Breaking Benjamin

“Over” by Lindsay Lohan

“If You Come Back to Me” by Bowling for Soup

“A Friendly Goodbye” by Bowling for Soup

“Those always a good few tunes for single people and they helped me a lot”. – Kait

“After the Hurriance” by Jazmine Sullivan
”Lion Tigers Bears” by Jazmine Sullivan
”Regret” by Letoya Luckett – brokenheartedgirl

“How Do You Heal a Broken Heart” by Chris Walker – Mark

“My boyfriend and I just broke up. It has been hard but music has really got me through it. Here are some of my best break up songs about moving on and finding someone that better.”
“Haven’t Met You Yet” by Michael Bublé
“I’m Gonna Find Another You” by John Mayer

“Slow Dancing in a Burning Room by John Mayer
“Dreaming With a Broken Heart by John Mayer

“Put Your Records on Lyrics” by Corrine Bailey
“Hey, Soul Sister” by Train – Amanda D

“I think a really good song for people with broken hearts is “Need You Now” by Lady Antebellum. I listen to it and I really feel the song. It always makes me want to cry.” – Dee.

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What are your favorite songs about breaking up with someone you love? Comments welcome below…

laurie pawlik kienlenI'm Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen (but I wish my name was Rosie Frost!). I'm a bookworm, travel bug, flute player, writer. My husband and I live in Vancouver, Canada with our cat and dogs.

Are you happy? My Grade 10 Social Studies teacher, Mr Merritt, always used to ask me that. And I am happy - despite a difficult childhood (schizophrenic mother, no father, foster homes), infertility, an eating disorder, and a chronic illness. The source of my peace and joy is God; I'm a Christian.

How is your life unfolding - what do you need? I welcome your big and little comments below, about big or little things. I can't give you advice, but writing can give you clarity and insight.

In peace and passion.... Laurie

  5 Responses to “Songs About Breaking Up With Someone You Love”

  1. Thanks for your comments — I’m making a new list of the best breakup songs!

  2. “She hates me” by Puddle of Mudd.

    Send it to your ex. Great song if you are angry.

  3. For guys who have had their hearts ripped out, they should try “whiskey lullaby” by Alison Krauss..powerful song..

  4. According To You by Orianthi is great! I listened to it over and over after my breakup.

  5. That is a pretty thorough list. I have a tune called “To All The Girls (Bitterness)” that seems to go over well with the break up crowd.

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