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Do You Panic at the Thought of Leaving Your Relationship?

Written by on April 3, 2013 in Breaking Up, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments
Do You Panic at the Thought of Leaving Your Relationship?

These tips on how to cope with the panic and anxiety you feel when you think about ending your relationship are inspired by a reader’s dilemma. She has wanted to leave her common-law husband for six years, and says: “I’ve been in a serious relationship for the past 9 years; for the last 6 years, I’ve [...]

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Should You Tell Him You’re Leaving or Secretly Move Out?

Written by on March 30, 2013 in Breaking Up, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments
Should You Tell Him You’re Leaving or Secretly Move Out?

When you’re moving out of a home you share with your partner, you can either him you’re leaving or you can just disappear. Here are a few reasons to talk about it in advance, and a few reasons to keep your move on the “down low” until you’re out. Here’s what one reader says: “I’ve [...]

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How to Get Out of a Relationship When You Have Nowhere to Go

Written by on March 16, 2013 in Breaking Up, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments
How to Get Out of a Relationship When You Have Nowhere to Go

How do you get out when you have nothing and nobody to lean on? On my article about getting money to leave your husband, a reader asked for help getting away from her abusive partner. It always breaks my heart when readers ask for help, because I never know what to do or say. I [...]

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How to Get Over a Break Up and Accept That It’s Over

Written by on August 4, 2012 in Breaking Up, Letting Go with 3 Comments
How to Get Over a Break Up and Accept That It’s Over

Acceptance is the healthiest way to get over a breakup. If you accept your relationship is over, you’re free to move into a happier stage of life. “We create our own suffering when we fight change,” writes Christopher Germer in The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion: Freeing Yourself from Destructive Thoughts and Emotions. “Mindfulness is a [...]

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How to Cope With the Pain of an Unexpected Divorce

Written by on August 9, 2011 in Breaking Up, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments

These tips for getting over the pain of an unexpected divorce range from creating a ritual of closure to accepting that you did the best you could in your marriage. My favorite tip is to find ways to be kind, gentle, and good to yourself when your husband leaves without warning. This article is inspired [...]

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How Do You Get Over a Man You Can’t Live Without? Start Here

Written by on November 5, 2010 in Breaking Up, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments
How Do You Get Over a Man You Can’t Live Without? Start Here

You CAN get over a man even when you think you can’t live without him. Your relationship is broken, and you need to start focusing on activities that move you towards health and healing. Asking “How do I get over him?” is the first step to healing heartache. This relationship breakup help is about getting [...]

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