Comments on: 10 Reasons Relationships Fail and Couples Break Up

By: How to Date Without Getting Hurt : Quips and Tips for Love and Relationships

How to Date Without Getting Hurt : Quips and Tips for Love and Relationships — Wed, 16 May 2012 22:59:50 +0000

[...] 3. Understand that “What you see, is what you get.” Don’t try to change a potential partner to be something he or she isn’t. Thinking that he has the “potential” to turn be a wonderful spouse is exactly the type of magical thinking that leads to the most common relationship problems. [...]

By: Is Your Husband Cheating? 5 Signs He's Having an Affair : Quips and Tips for Love and Relationships

Fri, 11 May 2012 13:35:22 +0000

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By: How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor : Quips and Tips for Love and Relationships

Wed, 09 May 2012 16:45:29 +0000

[...] Good counselors make you feel comfortable, and don’t judge you or make you feel worse about the reason your love relationship is faltering. Your therapist should put you at ease, and help you feel comfortable. The Psychology [...]

By: carlos

carlos — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 04:22:24 +0000

Me and my wife had a really bad argument and she got me mad I snap saying that I didn’t love her anymore I really regret saying that I mess up big time please help me

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 16:24:31 +0000

You may also find this article helpful - it doesn't explain why couples break up, but it may help you move on: How to Let Go of Someone You Love

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 16:20:34 +0000

Dear Stella,

I am so sorry that your relationship with your boyfriend didn’t work out. It’s heartbreaking, and you feel like you’ll never get over it. I don’t know what relationship problems you and he faced, but I do know that this happened for a reason! You have to trust that you and he weren’t meant to be.

I wrote this article for you:

How to Cope When the Man You Love is Marrying Someone Else

I hope it helps, and wish you all the best as you heal and move on.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: stella hundeyin

stella hundeyin — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 15:10:20 +0000

I just found out dat the guy I’ve been dating for four years is getting married to someone else, I love him so much and I have been crying cuz I don’t know what to do. I am so confuse and my heart is really hurting,I feel like dieing. Pls help me.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 14:11:14 +0000

Dear May,

Thanks for your comment and question – it’s a good one! It sounds like your boyfriend is taking advantage of you, and trying to manipulate you into lending him more money.

Of course he gets angry when you say no — and say no you should! You’re not his banker or money lender…you shouldn’t lend him more money to gamble away. Not only will he not pay you back, you’re also contributing to his gambling problem. And yes, he has a gambling problem! If he has to borrow money to gamble, it’s a problem.

I wrote this article for you:

How to Stay No to Your Boyfriend – Be Strong, Savvy, Sexy!

I hope it helps, and welcome your thoughts here or there.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: may

may — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 15:11:44 +0000

i have a question..did i do the right thing?? my boyfriend ask me to borrow him a money but i said no in a negative thing. because i was shocked when he ask me yesterday. i already lend him a big amount a week ago and now hes asking me to lend him again knowing that he used it to gamble.he is angry to me he thinks that i dont believe him and i only like money. what do u think about this?