Category: Reconnecting

Fix Your Marriage
Are You Living With an Angry Husband?

Got Anger Problems? 5 Tips for Living With an Angry Husband

Does your husband explode with rage over any little thing? These tips for living with an angry husband are for wives who are concerned about how their husbands’ anger problems are affecting their marriages and kids… “I’m worried about my husband because has several signs of mental illness,” says R. “He has gone from job [...]

Can You Trust Your Husband?

Tips for Wives Who Don’t Trust Their Husbands

One of the questions I’m often asked: “I don’t trust my husband. Do I stay married or get a divorce?” I can’t answer that, but I can give a few general tips for wives who don’t trust their husbands and who are wondering if they should get a divorce. These tips are inspired by a reader [...]

Yes, an Affair Can Save Your Marriage, But...

Can an Affair Save Your Marriage? It Depends…

This marriage counselor says affairs can save marriages, depending on the reason for the infidelity. These tips for saving your marriage after an affair are inspired by a wife who found out her husband has been cheating, after 26 years of marriage. Here’s what the marriage counselor says: “An affair delivers a power punch that [...]

What to Do When He Doesn't Spend Enough Time With You?

What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Have Time for You

Don’t pout or nag when your boyfriend doesn’t spend enough time with you! Here are the best things to do when you feel neglected and lonely in your relationship, inspired by a reader’s comment… “I am always lonely, and I complain to him,” says D on When Your Partner is Depressed. “He says he understands [...]

Why Domestic Violence Victims Don’t Press Charges – Secrets From Jail

Why Domestic Violence Victims Don’t Press Charges – Secrets From Jail

A new jailhouse research study reveals why women experiencing domestic violence don’t press charges against the men who abuse them. This is a fascinating study that reveals the abuser’s dirty, underhanded secrets for manipulating the women they abuse. “The existing belief is that victims recant [don’t press charges] because the perpetrator threatens her with more [...]

Why Stay Married When You Live Like Roommates? Because…

Why Stay Married When You Live Like Roommates? Because…

Why stay married when you live like roommates, you ask? Because divorce sucks, I say! These tips are inspired by a reader who loves her husband, but they live separate lives. I like to think most couples would rather work on their marriages than file for divorce, but I’m unhappily aware of the divorce rates [...]

When You’re Not Happy Married, But Not Sure About Divorce

When You’re Not Happy Married, But Not Sure About Divorce

That’s one of the most common questions I’m asked: What do you do when you’re not happily married, but you’re not sure if divorce is the answer. While I can’t tell you if you should get a divorce, I can give you a few things to think about… Here’s what one reader says: “My husband [...]

How Long Do You Wait for Your Husband to Get Over His Affair?

How Long Do You Wait for Your Husband to Get Over His Affair?

Affairs don’t necessarily mean your marriage is over! But, rebuilding relationships is tricky when cheating spouses (the husband, in this case) needs time to get over his affair. Here’s one reader’s dilemma: “My husband of 9 years cheated on me,” says M on Is Your Marriage Over? 7 Signs Your Spouse is Ending the Relationship. [...]

Can Your Love Relationship Survive a Serious Illness? Perhaps…

Can Your Love Relationship Survive a Serious Illness? Perhaps…

“In sickness and in health” is easier said than done! If you’re wondering if your relationship can survive a serious illness – mental or physical – check these tips out. They’re inspired by a comment from a reader… “I’ve been in a relationship for over five years,” says J. on When Your Partner is Depressed. [...]

How to Argue Without Hurting Your Partner – A Therapist’s Tips

How to Argue Without Hurting Your Partner – A Therapist’s Tips

Arguing with your spouse is normal – but being mean or hurtful isn’t! These tips for arguing without hurting your partner are from therapist Jeff Guenther, who practices in Portland, Oregon. Before the tips, a quip: “Years ago, I tried to top everybody, but I don’t anymore, I realized it was killing conversation. When you’re always [...]