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Overcoming Disappointment in Your Relationship

Written by on June 14, 2013 in Love, Reconnections, Solving Problems, Stages of Love with 0 Comments
Overcoming Disappointment in Your Relationship

Here are a few tips on how to overcome the disappointment you feel in your relationship, your husband, or your boyfriend. Last night I was talking to a friend about the depression she’s been struggling with for three years. The emotional exhaustion, physical fatigue, and spiritual numbness is bad – but the fact that her [...]

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65 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Words

65 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Words

Whether you’re in a new relationship or trying to fire up an old flame, you’ll find something you can use in these easy ways to say “I love you.” They’re not just words! These ways to profess your love are big and little actions that make a big difference in your everyday interactions. Knowing different [...]

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Is Flirting Cheating? 6 Signs of Harmless Flirtation

Written by on December 13, 2012 in Love, Reconnections, Sex, Stages of Love with 0 Comments
Is Flirting Cheating? 6 Signs of Harmless Flirtation

Six ways to know if you’re wrong for flirting, plus the difference between harmless flirtation and emotional cheating. Are you cheating by flirting? Flirting is cheating on your partner when your body language goes beyond innocent winks, smiles, and teasing. It’s not harmless flirtation when people are emotionally involved or invested in each other. Here [...]

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How to Give Your Boyfriend Alone Time

Written by on December 6, 2012 in Reconnections, Stages of Love with 0 Comments

In every relationship, one partner needs more space. These tips for giving boyfriends time alone to retreat into their “man caves” are based on a reader’s question. “How can I learn to simply give him his time to be alone so he can regroup?” asks a reader on When Your Boyfriend is Depressed – 6 [...]

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How to Overcome Fear of Intimacy

Written by on December 5, 2012 in Reconnections, Stages of Love with 0 Comments
How to Overcome Fear of Intimacy

The first step to overcoming fear of intimacy is recognizing the emotional walls and barriers that exist in your relationship. Fear of intimacy is often related to being hurt in the past. it involves the reluctance to open up and reveal your true self, perhaps because you’ve been hurt in the past. Or, if you [...]

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My Boyfriend Keeps Pushing Me Away – How Do I Show Him I Care?

Written by on September 30, 2012 in Love, Reconnections, Solving Problems, Stages of Love with 0 Comments

Q: My boyfriend of 3 years has completely shut down on me. How do I show him I care, when he won’t see or talk to me? This is the third summer this has happened accept this time it seems worse… [In the past] he mentioned that I was always there for him. In fact [...]

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How Do I Talk to My Boyfriend So He Listens to Me?

Written by on September 11, 2012 in Love, Reconnections, Solving Problems, Stages of Love with 0 Comments

Q: I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we have a beautiful one year old daughter. He spends all day outside in the garage, watching tv. He doesn’t want to spend time with me. When I tell him this is wrong, he says I b*tch a lot. He never wants to listen and [...]

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You Love Him, But You’re Not In Love With Him…Should You Break Up?

Written by on August 10, 2012 in Love, Reconnections, Stages of Love with 6 Comments
You Love Him, But You’re Not In Love With Him…Should You Break Up?

It’s normal not to feel “in love” with your boyfriend or husband all the time. How do you decide what to do when you love him, but you don’t always feel in love? Here’s what Karen (not her real name) says: “I’m 30 and I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, I have 3 [...]

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You Lied to Your Girlfriend and Now You Want Her Back

Written by on August 3, 2012 in Dating, Love, Reconnections with 0 Comments

A reader emailed me, describing how he lied to his girlfriend. She broke up with him, and now he wants her back. Here Here’s part of his email: “When I first started dating her, I told her I had about $10,000 in credit card debt and was addicted to smokeless tobacco.  These were two things [...]

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Co Dependency in Love – How to Untangle a Codependent Relationship

Written by on June 15, 2012 in Love, Reconnections, Solving Problems with 0 Comments

Whether you call it co dependency in love or a codependent relationship, the result is the same: two people depending on each other in unhealthy ways. Co dependent partners feed each other’s sickness and support each other’s unhealthy patterns of relating and communicating. Here, a woman I call Dee shares her tips for ending co dependency [...]

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