Emotional Affairs

How to Forgive Yourself for Having an Affair

How to Forgive Yourself for Having an Affair

Your partner forgave you for cheating, but you can’t forgive yourself for having the affair. These suggestions for self-forgiveness are inspired by this reader’s comment: “I cheated on my husband a year ago with his best friend, and I’m truly repentant. My husband has decided to forgive me and move on. But, he’s still hurting [...]

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What Should I Do When I Suspect He is Cheating on Me?

Written by on September 9, 2012 in Emotional Affairs, Physical Affairs with 1 Comment

Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. He has cheated me before but we worked it out. We really like each other. But I suspect he’s cheating on me again! What should I do? When You Suspect He’s Cheating on You… The short answer is to dump him right now, because [...]

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Am I Sick for Staying With a Man Who Keeps Cheating on Me?

Written by on August 29, 2012 in Emotional Affairs, Physical Affairs with 0 Comments

Q: I must be sick in the head to stay with a man who cheats again and again. I’ve been with my fiance for a little over three years. We broke up once for 10 months. About 2 years ago I was in a tragic car accident and lost my 3 year old son, my [...]

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My Husband Had an Affair With My Best Friend – How Do I Cope?

Written by on August 26, 2012 in Emotional Affairs, Letting Go, Physical Affairs with 0 Comments

Q: After 3 years, I find it almost impossible to move on. My husband had an affair with my best friend, who I knew for about 15 years. She had been to all our children’s birthday parties, seen all our babies when newborn, been to our wedding and babysat a couple of times over night [...]

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Healing the Pain When Your Husband Has Been Unfaithful

Hurt, heartache, and disbelief are common reactions when your husband has been unfaithful. These tips for healing the pain after an affair are for a reader whose husband was unfaithful for months. “My world came crashing down,” says Gail on How to Cope When Your Husband Leaves You for Another Woman. “He has been with [...]

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6 Ways to Overcome Your Obsession With Your Husband’s Affair

6 Ways to Overcome Your Obsession With Your Husband’s Affair

Here are six healthy, effective ways to overcome your obsessed thoughts about your husband’s cheating.  First, it’s important to remember that an affair isn’t something you just “get over” – no matter how well-adjusted, secure, or healthy you are. These tips are inspired by a reader who can’t forgive and forget the fact that her [...]

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Can an Affair Save Your Marriage? It Depends…

Can an Affair Save Your Marriage? It Depends…

This marriage counselor says affairs can save marriages, depending on the reason for the infidelity. These tips for saving your marriage after an affair are inspired by a wife who found out her husband has been cheating, after 26 years of marriage. Here’s what the marriage counselor says: “An affair delivers a power punch that [...]

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How to Forgive and Trust Your Husband After He Cheated on You

Written by on September 29, 2011 in Emotional Affairs, Physical Affairs with 1 Comment
How to Forgive and Trust Your Husband After He Cheated on You

Forgiving and trusting your husband after he cheated on you is a daily effort – it’s not a one-time thing. These tips for healing your marriage when trust is broken will help you reconnect with your husband and rebuild your marriage. “My husband cheated on me with his coworker, who has since left the company,” says [...]

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How to Recover From a Long-Term Affair

Written by on August 23, 2011 in Emotional Affairs, Marital Infidelity, Physical Affairs with 7 Comments
How to Recover From a Long-Term Affair

First, you have to decide whether you even want to save your marriage after you find out your husband had a long-term love affair. Here’s what one reader said: “A woman called and told me that my husband of 34 years, was ‘hooking up’ with another woman,” says A. on How to Trust Your Husband [...]

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How Long Do You Wait for Your Husband to Get Over His Affair?

Written by on August 9, 2011 in Emotional Affairs, Marriage, Physical Affairs, Reconnecting with 3 Comments

Affairs don’t necessarily mean your marriage is over! But, rebuilding relationships is tricky when cheating spouses (the husband, in this case) needs time to get over his affair. Here’s one reader’s dilemma: “My husband of 9 years cheated on me,” says M on Is Your Marriage Over? 7 Signs Your Spouse is Ending the Relationship. [...]

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