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How to Cope With a Salary Cut

How to Cope With a Salary Cut

Written by on June 18, 2013 in Money with 0 Comments

Salary cuts aren’t reserved for government officials who earn six figures; they happen to wee people like us! Here’s how we’re coping with our most recent salary cut. I say “most recent” salary cut because the first one was about three months ago. It was significant. We just got the second one a couple days [...]

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4 Reasons Women Get Involved With the Wrong Men

4 Reasons Women Get Involved With the Wrong Men

Written by on June 17, 2013 in Communicating & Relating, New Relationships with 3 Comments

Are you attracted to the same men – who aren’t good for you – over and over? The sooner you know the reasons you’re getting involved with the wrong men, the quicker you’ll break the pattern. Here’s what one reader says about her history of bad relationships: “I am currently leaving my second terrible long [...]

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Broken Up About the Breakup? How to Heal the Pain of a Broken Heart

Broken Up About the Breakup? How to Heal the Pain of a Broken Heart

Written by on June 15, 2013 in Breaking Up, Death, Letting Go, Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments

These lists of emotional, physical, and practical tips will help heal your broken heart. Whether your breakup is new or old, there’s something here for you. A couple months ago I put a little disclaimer at the end of every article, saying I can’t offer advice but I encourage you to write about your troubles. [...]

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Overcoming Disappointment in Your Relationship

Overcoming Disappointment in Your Relationship

Written by on June 14, 2013 in Love, Reconnections, Solving Problems, Stages of Love with 0 Comments

Here are a few tips on how to overcome the disappointment you feel in your relationship, your husband, or your boyfriend. Last night I was talking to a friend about the depression she’s been struggling with for three years. The emotional exhaustion, physical fatigue, and spiritual numbness is bad – but the fact that her [...]

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How to Recover From Broken Promises in a Relationship

How to Recover From Broken Promises in a Relationship

Written by on June 13, 2013 in Grieving & Loss, Love with 2 Comments

Broken promises not only destroy trust, they affect your future relationships. These tips on recovering from broken promises are inspired by a reader’s comment. She says: “I am a 21 year old girl, married to a 40 year old man. I don’t love my husband, I married him to provide for my needs. I want [...]

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How to Stop a Divorce

How to Stop a Divorce

Written by on June 10, 2013 in Separation & Divorce with 0 Comments

Unless you’ve had personal experience with divorce, you don’t realize how devastating it is. These suggestions on how to stop a divorce are inspired by a phone call I had with an elderly friend. “My daughter’s divorce has torn our family apart,” she said. “I can’t believe how it’s affected my relationships with my other [...]

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5 Reasons to Take a Relationship Break

5 Reasons to Take a Relationship Break

Written by on June 7, 2013 in Breaking Up, Separation & Divorce, Stages of Love with 2 Comments

Short or long breaks in a relationship can give you time to think and space to breathe. Here are several reasons a relationship break might be your best choice, starting with a quip from a wonderful blog… “If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the [...]

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How to Make Your Marriage Work

How to Make Your Marriage Work

Written by on June 5, 2013 in Expressing Love, Health, Marriage, Reconnecting with 2 Comments

Marriage gets boring and sometimes even impossible, especially when we’re stressed or unhappy. These tips for making your marriage work might help you see your relationship in a whole new way. Here’s what one reader says: “I am not in love with my husband anymore. He is boring! I want to travel. He does not. [...]

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How to Cope With Abuse in Relationships

How to Cope With Abuse in Relationships

Abuse in relationships can be verbal, emotional, physical, mental – and it also includes neglect and the “silent treatment.” One of the worst parts of relationship abuse is that it isolates the victim. Here’s how one reader describes it: “I feel so sad and lonely. I have been with my husband 7 years and have [...]

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How Can I Get My Husband to Want Me?

How Can I Get My Husband to Want Me?

Written by on June 5, 2013 in Marriage, Romance, Sex with 0 Comments

Your husband looks at other women, online and in person. Here’s how to get him to want you again – and it’s not about increasing your sex appeal, losing weight or being a more attractive woman. I’m inspired to write this by a wife who wrote the following comment: “The first 10 years of marriage [...]

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