Comments on: When Am I Ovulating? Fertility Signs in Ovulation Symptoms

By: Amber

Amber — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 22:50:08 +0000

Kerry, I feel your pain. When I was 21 I had my son by an old boyfriend (I did keep him). I vowed to never have another baby unless I was married, I refused to be a single mother w/multiple baby daddy. I thought I was being careful being on birth control & using condoms but I (surprisingly) became pregnant 2 other times after having my son. I chose abortion both times. Now I am almost 30 & happliy married for almost 2 yrs now, my husband is 27. We have been trying for over a year to get pregnant with no luck. We did (surprisingly, again!)get pregnant early in our relationship but I miscarried. I dont think he is the one with fertility problems. I cant help but feel like god is now punishing me for not excepting the multiple gifts of life he tired to give me years ago. I’m now older & more mature, ready to have more children (my son is dying to be a brother!)with a wonderful man who has excepted my son as his own & he deserves to experience all the joys of fatherhood but i dont know if i can give that to him? We have not exceeded all of the fertility options out there but (we also cant afford them…) as we reached the 1 yr mark of trying with no results i cant help but feel a little hopeless & defeated. I do believe in karma, maybe its getting the best of me?
I just wanted to let you know that your feelings of guilt are normal & you’re not alone. I know my story will not help everything your feeling inside, but when i read your post as soon as i got to “punishment” i was a little relieved to hear my feelings were normal. I do wish you lots of luck in this journey.

By: Kerry

Kerry — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 07:09:48 +0000

Hi me and my husband has been trying to have a baby for almost four years now. I am 38 my husband is 37 when I was 18 years old I got pregnant and gave the baby up for adoption now I fill I am getting punished cause now that I am ready to have a baby I am unable to. We haven’t tried nothing just the old fashion way. Now we are trying everything not being able to have a baby by the one u love makes me fill like I am less then a women. We need help very bad. I blame my husband saying it’s him but I really don’t now my husband don’t have any children we don’t have a lot of money to pay for a fertility doctor.

By: jason

jason — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 23:54:52 +0000

My girl wants another baby.I’ve been timing
Here cycle and releasing at the right time
According to the calendar.We can’t catch a break
Five months ago we had brief success but it didn’t make
A week and died…I don’t know if its me or not.
Could our body fluids not be compatible.Could
She be cheeting with another guy