Comments on: Taking Too Long to Get Pregnant? 5 Ways to Cope

By: Laurie

Laurie — Wed, 10 Apr 2013 14:51:17 +0000

Does spirituality or faith in God help you cope? It took me a long time to accept that I’ll never get pregnant, and it helps to have faith that my life is in His hands.

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 03 Mar 2013 18:00:46 +0000

Dear Lisa,

It sounds like you’ve been through so much in your attempts to get pregnant! I have a fibroid, too, and the fertility doctor wanted me to have surgery to get rid of it. I refused because I didn’t want to go through in vitro fertilization. If I’m going to get pregnant, it’ll be naturally! I want kids, but not bad enough to try fertility treatments. I admire and respect couples who try IUI and IVF!

But, even though I’m fine with not having kids, I do wonder why some teens get pregnant without wanting to. Other women get pregnant at the drop of a hat. It’s not fair! I would’ve loved a baby, and there are millions of women who get pregnant without intending to.

Anyway, thank you for sharing your experience with trying to get pregnant. I wish you all the best. If you have any questions or want to share your thoughts, feel free! I did try IUI for six months, but it didn’t take. Maybe that’s why I’m not keen on IVF.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 21:56:21 +0000

I have been trying to get pregnant since the end of 2011. By April 2012 I experienced a severe pain for months. It was hard to walk or bend over, sex was painful and my stomach was big all of a sudden. I looked 4months pregnant.

By August I had an ultrasound and they found a big fibroid. Had surgery and they also found endometriosis and the fibroid was fused to my badder. After that a few periods were normal but then I started spotting a week before AF each month. I always had seemingly regular periods and try the ovulation test sticks and they come out positive but no baby.

My periods are weird now and I always feel slight “crampy” in the two weeks leading up to my next period. Called the Gyno but they don’t even seem concerned. I requested hormone testing to see if there was a problem there-Nope. So they want me to try six months if nothing happens then I go back to the fertility specialist. I intend to do IUI, IVF if necessary. I’m 35 and it is so depressing to see people who don’t want kids getting pregnant, and people I know who don’t take care of their other children and pop out another. I hate baby showers and baby birthday parties and all the questions as to why I don’t have any children and people telling me that I won’t ever be able to have any. I try not to think about it each month but I am reminded with questions every month “ARE YOU PREGNANT YET”

By: Laurie

Laurie — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 12:13:10 +0000

Dear 5Angels,

Thank you for sharing your struggles with getting pregnant – you sure have been through a lot!

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, that it does not take longer to get pregnant and that you receive a blessing of two more baby miracles.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: 5Angels

5Angels — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 13:40:55 +0000

I have had 5 mc, and have 2 georgous girls 6 & 4, I have been trying for 3 years to conveive, been doing a lot of research, something that has worked for me very quickly within the few days of ovulation is taking 1 borroca tablet a day for 1-2 weeks after last day of period, and I have conceived straight away, not sure if this is safe as my last pregnancy Oct last year was a blightom ovum and l MC, but tried this method again in late Jan and I am 5 weeks pregnant, worked straight away. I ovulate end of third week after 1st day of last period. I am not giving up I am 36years old. Hoping I can at least have 2 more health miracles.

By: ana

ana — Wed, 16 Jan 2013 17:51:15 +0000

helo
i have 2 kids and i cant get pregnant with baby number 3. Why?

By: Laurie

Laurie — Wed, 16 Jan 2013 14:47:00 +0000

Dear Nikki,

Thank you for your words of hope for women who are trying to get pregnant. Spirituality is important to me, and I think it has made it easier for me to accept the way our baby making journey turned out.

By: Nikki

Nikki — Wed, 16 Jan 2013 03:27:25 +0000

GOD IS REAL!!! IM A witness please don’t loose hope I have 1 son who is 21 years old I got pregnant at 13 yrs old I KNOW I was a baby having a baby but life happens ? However 4 years later I met my Husband sent from God we are truly in love my soul mate when we met Iwas 18 he was 21 at the time we were very young and intimate regulary but I never, never got pregnant . I didnt think to much about it because we’re still young and enjoying each other but when 3 yrs turned into 5 years then 10 years I knew then we needed some help from a Doctor but my husband refused to go he kept saying God will give us a baby I believe God would and could but thought I know he works through doctors my husband still didn’t want to go and he’s that man that loves people especially kids and he had none of his own ???? many days I would pray cry and pray again people also at church would pray I would also often have dreams of my baby with my husband whom I love but only to wake up to reality , my period was very regular I never missed however However Dream in particular God spoke to me and said There’s a secret one is SPENDING TIME In GOD Presence and The other one that really stood out because I knew the first one but the second secret is GOD TIMES AND SEASONS ARE STRATEGIC…THAT was about 6-7 years ago …After a while when nothing happen I pretty much kinda let it go I kept hoping but didn’t talk about it much ..But I would often ponder in my heart and tell The Father God I love young matter if I had a baby or not and began to be thankful for what I had… EVERYBODY even when you think your prayers are not heard and forget all the tears you cried God remembers you!!!! I cried leaving baby showers and bought baby outfits by faith over 8-10 years ago God remembered ME Even when close family members had kids and abortions and didn’t want them I’m pleading to Save A Life God remembered and More than that When I doubted Him He Our Father God through His son Jesus is Faithful to me and you!!!!!
My grandmother passed in 2011at 93 years old for over 12 years she wanted me to have a baby before she
died….. a year later yes 2012 in the same month as me and my husband anniversary Oct 2012 10 days later 17 years together I was in total shock no fertilization, no nothing bBut Gods Grace I’m pregnant and my first due date was my birthday WOW WHAT A MIGHTY GOD !!!! IN JESUS NAME BY FAITH I PRAY AS SURE AS YOU READ THIS HE WILL DO THE SAME FOR YOU TRUST IN HIS WORD NOT THE DOCTORS BUT GODS WORD IT WILL NOT FAIL I PROMISE IT’S SO MANY WOMEN IN THE BIBLE THAT COULD NOT CONCEIVE AND GOD OPEN HERE WOMB PLEASE READ AND ACCEPT JESUS IN YOUR LIFE AND BELIEVE AND HE WILL DO THE MIRACLES HE PROMISED be Patient and wait on The Lord He shall strengthen your heart wait He says !!! JEREMIAH 29:11

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 13 Jan 2013 16:09:32 +0000

Thank you, Ivy girl – I love how hopeful and positive you are about getting pregnant, even though it’s been 7 years of trying! Some couples try for 3 months and get disappointed (like us – we thought we’d get pregnant right away).

I hope other women are inspired by your hope and faith that it WILL happen for you…and for them.

By: Ivy girl

Ivy girl — Thu, 10 Jan 2013 09:26:56 +0000

Hello everyone! I am on the same boat but been trying for 7 years and still have not given up hope! We’re both healthy but not sure what the reason is, I use to have irregular periods but I’ve known people who have a period once or twice a year and still have kids. I’m very sad but not going to stress myself because it doesn’t help my process. I did a lot of research on web and can only suggest that you guys have sex every two days after your period, that’s what my Dr told me, I feel like its getting closer and try not o stress so much even though its really hard. Don’t kill yourself as I seen some posts, it took my uncle and some friends I know ten years also so don’t lose faith and o the things you’ve been wanting to, go on a vacation, travel, something you want to do to ease your mind and when you forget and lose hope I feel that’s when it happens. Things happen when it’s unplanned and it seems pregnancy is that to. I wish you all luck and do some research also as much as you want and try looking up Feng shui for fertility, you never know what helps or not and it doesn’t hurt to try. I’m trying Feng shui now and I feel more at peace and it helps if you research about it. I slept directly under a ceiling fan and learned from Feng shui that it is bad because he energy gets cut and energy it can not connect to your body, sound Crüe if you think about it. Don’t have anything under your bed because the energy can not flow under…it seems complicated but worth a try, there’s a reason it exists for hundreds of years for Feng shui users. Good luck all and try anything you think will help!