Laurie:
Perhaps you or another should write something about this topic.
I have only found dry medical studies Mass Aging Male Study (?)was about the best.

No one has every written anything to truly discuss the reality of:
a)Great discrepancy in male/female sexual biological capability.
b)The use of “male sexual superiority” to conceal this.
c)How men feel about the large biological difference in sexual response.
d)How men hide this truth from themselves.
e)Conversations with men who are aware and how they deal with or accept this biological difference.
f)How men feel when they realize their sexual response capability will and does decline from approximately 18 years of age.
g)How men feel about the fact that they will be noticeably declining in sexual capability when their wives / girlfriends will be becoming more sexually responsive and orgasmic.
h)How men feel when they realize that they will be having fewer orgasms, their erections will be getting of shorter duration, their erections will be getting softer, their refractory period will be lengthening, etc.
i)Lessening in testosterone production and ability to use same beginning so early in life.
j)The certainty that with age,(even young, not 50 yr old) even if health is ok, orgasms will be less frequent, less intense, shorter in duration, longer to achieve, refractory period longer, one orgasm will exhaust him, one erection may even be problematic, etc.

Laurie:
I get paid to do research. Sexual response patterns and capability was one of my contracts. I showed some of the reports to two female friends who essentially responded that they were very happy they were not men.

When I have read press reviews, internet opinions and comments, “natural” male sexual decline and or the lessening of their biological ability and or imperative, is simply not addressed, as are not the other concerns of men.

It seems the tough questions and true reality of the chasm of sexual capability / decline (male to female) are ignored. The only answer given by experts is that the male sexual “decline” is not “true” because the limited sexual capability which overtakes males does not render it (sex) less enjoyable.

A true natural picture of realistic changes (decline) in sexual response of the male, with both objective and subjective proofs would be the better way to go.

Kinsey and Masters and Johnson plus The Massachusetts Aging Male Study are only a beginning. The Psychological and Societal import of these biological realities is not examined or admitted.

Females are not deeply questioned as to their feelings and or thoughts about their potential mates sexual decline vis-a-vis their own sexual increasing potential.

Joy Behar is the only female on TV who has ever commented, to mu knowledge, in my recollection. One syndicated radio psychologist said “It’s a pity that … (mens’ sexual capabilty declines so early)”.

I must speak with researchers, psychologists and sexual counsellors to find individual studies and leads and other persons with whom to speak.

One comment, when she (Psychologist) inquired as to the reason for this particular area of research, I responded that I receive research contracts and that this area of sexual research is not broached. She looked as well and could not find any studies.

Openess and knowledge are important to understanding the human condition. To reduce male sexual response to Viagra is a great disservice both to males and love and human relationships.

Any thoughts?

There are very many psychologists, sex therapists, other researchers, pharmaceutical companies, their on-staff people, who will undoubtedly be able to give you leads and information and opinion.

Then we will find out if and how important an issue it is.

Have fun Laurie.

Solly

Thanks for your addition to my shocking facts about male sex organs! I don’t know if the therapist would approve, but they are interesting.

1)Greatest orgasmic response. 18 years.
2)Highest testosterone levels. 18 years.
3)Most efficient utilization of free testosterone 18 years.
4)Noticeable age of change in angle of erection. 24 years.
5)Noticeable change in refractory period. 25 years.
6)Noticeable change in measurable testosterone. 30 years.
7)Noticeable change in refractory period with repercussions. 30 years.
8)Frequency of orgasmic capability 50% of 18 years by age 30.
9)Age 40. 52% of males have some level of sexual dysfunction.

If medical professionals told the truth to both men and women about the rapid decline in male sexual orgasmic function (capability) by age 30, can you imagine the psychological effects. Females would be quite depressed as well.

If males were informed in high school health classes that within 10 to 12 years, they would only be half as orgasmiclly biologically capable by age 30 there would be cataclysmic psychological and societal implications.

Females would know that while they are multi-orgasmic, their boyfriends would at best be able to come 2 or 3 times. Female satisfaction will be problematic or non-truth would be the sine-qua-non of sexual education.

No one discuses and prepares males and females for the knowledge that sexual capacity is unequal and from a very early age, (21?)it declines quite rapidly and unequally, and that females should know that 52% of males have sexual difficulty and decline very early in life.

Such a shame that truth is not told.