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Signs It’s Time to Give Up on Your Goal of Getting Pregnant

Is trying to have a baby a healthy goal for your life and marriage, or is it causing anxiety, depression, and other problems? Giving up on your dream of getting pregnant may be a healthy thing to do…but the trick is knowing when it’s time to give up or when it’s time to try different strategies (e.g., [...]

How to Increase Physical Intimacy When You Have Infertility Issues

Keeping the love alive can be difficult for couples coping with infertility, especially if they’re trying to conceive while dealing with male or female fertility issues! Here are several tips for increasing physical intimacy when you have infertility issues…

Before the tips, a quip:

“Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like [...]

Infertility in Marriage – 6 Tips for Supporting Your Husband or Wife

Not being able to get pregnant can be stressful for a marriage, and can even lead to separation or divorce. These research-based tips for supporting your husband or wife in infertility may help strengthen your marriage while you figure out what your future family will look like…

Before the tips, a quip from celebrity Cindy Margolis about [...]

What to Say to People Who Keep Asking If You’re Pregnant Yet

Are you frustrated with family and friends who keep asking about your fertility treatments, if you’re pregnant yet, or how you’re coping with infertility as a couple? I know I am…so I created a short list of ways to deal with people who keep asking how my baby-making efforts are going.

Before the tips, a quip:

“If we [...]

Infertility Over the Holidays – How to Enjoy Christmas and Thanksgiving

The holiday season isn’t happy or fun for many couples coping with infertility or women who can’t get pregnant. These suggestions for enjoying Christmas and Thanksgiving — not just surviving the holiday season — may help infertile men and women cope.

“Isn’t it funny that at Christmas something in you gets so lonely for – I don’t know what exactly, [...]

Why Talking About Infertility Makes You Feel Better

One of my readers is starting to talk about her infertility, telling people that she can’t get pregnant because of endometriosis and fibroids. This, I believe, will make her feel better and start the healing process…

“I’ve got endometriosis and fibroids – and also had a failed IVF,” she wrote in the comments section of Dealing With the Disappointment [...]

When Your Wife is Depressed Because She Can’t Get Pregnant

Husbands, if your wife can’t get pregnant, she may be struggling with infertility depression. It may not matter if the issue is male or female infertility; what matters is she can’t have what she wants most: a baby.

And, the worst thing for you as a man is that you can’t give her what she wants. [...]

Infertility and Divorce – How to Know if You Can Save Your Marriage

Some couples coping with infertility are overwhelmed with grief or anger; and sometimes, infertility leads to divorce. Can you save your marriage – and do you want to stay married? Here are some thoughts from a marriage and family expert that might help.

“If you are considering leaving because your marriage is difficult, and you want [...]

Ways to Cope With Infertility Depression on Thanksgiving Day

If you can’t get pregnant and are coping with infertility depression on Thanksgiving Day – remember that you’re not alone! About 10% of couples trying to get pregnant have fertility problems.

“As month after month of prayers go unanswered, we can begin to wonder if God is even there,” writes Julie Irwin Zimmerman in A Spiritual [...]

Halloween Costumes for Couples Coping With Infertility

Check out these Halloween costumes for couples coping with infertility! Kid-centered celebrations can be tough when you can’t get pregnant. But, instead of dwelling on disappointment or longing for a baby or kids spend Halloween with, take a walk on the lighter side!

These Halloween costumes focus on pregnancy, fertility, love, and relationships. If thinking about dressing up [...]