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Increasing Pregnancy Chances – Tips for Overcoming Infertility Stress

Even if infertility stress doesn’t decrease your pregnancy chances, it sure takes the fun out of trying to get pregnant! These tips for overcoming the stress of fertility treatments, ovulation monitoring, temperature charting, and scheduled romps in the hay are from doctors and research studies.

Before the tips, a quip:

“I gained 60 pounds, and I’m proud [...]

Signs It’s Time to Give Up on Your Goal of Getting Pregnant

Is trying to have a baby a healthy goal for your life and marriage, or is it causing anxiety, depression, and other problems? Giving up on your dream of getting pregnant may be a healthy thing to do…but the trick is knowing when it’s time to give up or when it’s time to try different strategies (e.g., [...]

The Law of Attraction and Tips on Getting Pregnant

I recently watched The Secret again, to see if the Law of Attraction offers tips on getting pregnant. Since The Secret is all about attracting what you want out of life, and I want to get pregnant, I figured I had nothing to lose! Here’s a summary of how the three main forces of the [...]

Infertility Over the Holidays – How to Enjoy Christmas and Thanksgiving

The holiday season isn’t happy or fun for many couples coping with infertility or women who can’t get pregnant. These suggestions for enjoying Christmas and Thanksgiving — not just surviving the holiday season — may help infertile men and women cope.

“Isn’t it funny that at Christmas something in you gets so lonely for – I don’t know what exactly, [...]

Why Talking About Infertility Makes You Feel Better

One of my readers is starting to talk about her infertility, telling people that she can’t get pregnant because of endometriosis and fibroids. This, I believe, will make her feel better and start the healing process…

“I’ve got endometriosis and fibroids – and also had a failed IVF,” she wrote in the comments section of Dealing With the Disappointment [...]

Living Without Children in a World of Families

A reader just asked about living without children in a world that is focused on families. If you can’t have kids and can’t stand seeing babies and advertisements for pregnancy or infertility everywhere, then she may be echoing your own questions!

Here’s what Jen said on my How to Live With the Fact That You’ll Never [...]

Infertility and Divorce – How to Know if You Can Save Your Marriage

Some couples coping with infertility are overwhelmed with grief or anger; and sometimes, infertility leads to divorce. Can you save your marriage – and do you want to stay married? Here are some thoughts from a marriage and family expert that might help.

“If you are considering leaving because your marriage is difficult, and you want [...]

Ways to Cope With Infertility Depression on Thanksgiving Day

If you can’t get pregnant and are coping with infertility depression on Thanksgiving Day – remember that you’re not alone! About 10% of couples trying to get pregnant have fertility problems.

“As month after month of prayers go unanswered, we can begin to wonder if God is even there,” writes Julie Irwin Zimmerman in A Spiritual [...]

How to Overcome Infertility Depression

Are you having trouble getting pregnant, and struggling with infertility depression? Here are several tips for overcoming it, ranging from letting go of certain words to uniting with other couples coping with infertility.

Before the tips, a quip:

“If we give up the notion that everybody’s life but ours is perfect, we would be a lot happier,” [...]

How to Live With the Fact That You’ll Never Have Children

A reader asked for suggestions on how to live with the fact that she’ll never have children…she doesn’t want to feel sad all the time. I don’t blame her! For more info about how she is coping with infertility, read her comment and question on Accepting a Childfree Life.

Before my tips, a quip:

“Rigid beliefs make disappointments [...]