Comments on: Fear of Infertility – 5 Tips for Overcoming Fertility Problems

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 18:46:45 +0000

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Cindy!

I agree, that nothing — absolutely nothing — can replace a woman’s (or man’s) urge to have her own child.

My husband and I can’t have children because of fertility problems that we can’t “fix”…so we do what we can. Yes, we have an empty hole in our lives. But either we dwell on the emptiness or we find different things to focus on.

I’m so curious about you! How old are you, and why haven’t you had children? Or have you had kids? You seem to know what it’s like to feel the emptiness and not be able to get pregnant…if you’d like to share more of your life, I’d love to know more.

I think I need to spend more time with people who have fertility problems. My husband and I are pretty much the only ones in our circle and neighborhood without kids, and it’d be good for us to connect with people who are childfree/childless.

Anyway, thanks again for commenting, Cindy.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: Cindy

Cindy — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 18:15:12 +0000

so, i’m not completely sold on the laws of attraction and how they can help you reach your fertility goal. i do believe that thinking in a positive way tends to bring more positive results in your life. however, it’s difficult to hear so many people say “instead of being a mom or day, maybe you can reassert your thoughts towards being the cool neighborhood “auntie”.

i just get so frustrated when i hear these sorts of things. being an aunt never replaces the desire to be a mom. being a big sister never replaces the desire to be a mother. reaching out to others is a caring guesture and it’s important to give part of yourself, but it doesn’t fill the emptiness that a woman is left with when they can’t bring that niece or nephew home or a child of their own to call them their own.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Wed, 26 May 2010 12:45:32 +0000

Hi Suhasini,

I wish I could help you by telling you to remedy polycystic disease and get pregnant quickly, but I just can’t. You need to get medical advice like this from your doctor, who knows your body and lifestyle.

Listen to your doctor; he or she probably knows what the right route is. And, stay healthy by eating the right foods, reducing stress, timing your ovulation, and reading up on pregnancies! It takes time to get pregnant — but many women do, even with polycystic ovarian syndrome.

You may find this article helpful:

Yes, You Can Get Pregnant If You Have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome

I hope it helps, and wish you all the best.

Blessings,
Laurie

By: suhasini

suhasini — Fri, 21 May 2010 17:02:24 +0000

hi laurie.recently i came to know that am suffering from poly cystic disease and my gynaecologist had suggested me glyciphaseP15 pills.with this problem could i be able to conceive in 1 or 2 months.please suggest me the remedy and the precautions i need to take to conceive. thank you.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Sun, 09 May 2010 21:30:50 +0000

Suhasini,

Thanks for your comment, Suhasini! I’m glad these articles on fertility and getting pregnant are helpful…because feeling confident is a great way to increase your chances of pregnancy.

Good luck, and enjoy the process of getting pregnant…

Laurie

By: suhasini

suhasini — Wed, 05 May 2010 16:13:08 +0000

laurie.your 5 tips work well .I was fearing a lot whether i could conceive or not as we were trying for that from past 3 months.but when i started reading articles on fertility and tips of your’s in getting pregnant .it’s really been useful for me.am confident now.thank q.

By: Laurie PK

Laurie PK — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 15:19:02 +0000

Action is another great way to overcome fear of infertility. Take action by making appointments with doctors or fertility specialists, talking to your spouse, or arming yourself with resource material (books, fertility treatment info, information-gathering sessions with fertility counselors, etc).