I met one of my closest male friends through the Telepersonals, about 14 years ago. It didn’t work out for us to date, and now he’s like a brother to me. The best part is that my husband and he get along great — and have even gone out for lunch, just the two of them! It surprises us all, really, that we gel so well.

Searching for Mr Right is alot more convenient through online dating, and I know many couples who met and fell in love that way. It can work like a charm — there are alot of good, trustworthy, wonderful people who are single and just don’t have the time or opportunity to hook up in real life.

But like with everything: don’t keep your eggs all in one basket. I’d wouldn’t just focus on online dating, I’d also get out there as much as possible in person. It’s good for your brain, to socialize and meet people

“Many years ago I read a book by Margaret Kent, “How to Marry the Man of Your Choice.” I don’t know if it was from her book or otherwise, but here’s a bit of valuable info I didn’t learn until way too late to be of real value…

The single most determining factor to a woman’s success in life is who she selects as a mate. If the person is supportive, she will soar and become all she is capable of being. If, on the other hand, that man is not supportive, undermines her dreams and, like way too many men, he pulls her down, she will miss out on becoming the woman she can be. And a lot worse, as well.

Please share this with especially those young women who have not yet made the decision of a lifetime that can truly make or break their future happiness.

I met a mom many years back that had three adorable little daughters. She worked long nursing shifts (three days) so she could have more time off. With the support of extended family & husband, they made it a point to have a weekend together each month. They alternated planning their getaway and it was kept secret. I thought it a wonderful tradition – where they obviously worked together and valued each other as individuals while still maintaining a tight family schedule of obligations. With each “giving” and especially the husband’s contribution, she had a terrific career as well as personal life.”

This is great dating and relationship advice — thanks, Carol Ann!