Comments on: When Your Personality Causes Problems – Unhappy Introverts http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/ Got goals? Need a push in the right direction? You've come to the right place! Thu, 24 May 2012 22:43:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Gemi http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-41220 Gemi Wed, 28 Mar 2012 20:39:51 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-41220 Introversion does not entail that an individual wants to be constantly alone. Yes, introverts feel drained after large socializations due to their need to often put extra effort into it, but little or no socialization causes introverts to feel just as miserable as an extrovert who is cut from all outside contacts. Strangers are very tough to trust or get along with, and connections with friends have difficulties growing if I feel too different in comparison to them. It's very strange, but the less meaningful contact I have the worse I feel every day. This sucks. -_- ~Gem Introversion does not entail that an individual wants to be constantly alone. Yes, introverts feel drained after large socializations due to their need to often put extra effort into it, but little or no socialization causes introverts to feel just as miserable as an extrovert who is cut from all outside contacts. Strangers are very tough to trust or get along with, and connections with friends have difficulties growing if I feel too different in comparison to them. It’s very strange, but the less meaningful contact I have the worse I feel every day. This sucks. -_-

~Gem

]]> By: Josh http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-39625 Josh Sun, 15 Jan 2012 07:06:23 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-39625 Damn, looks like my personality has become a problem lol i can greatly relate to all of those problems. Damn, looks like my personality has become a problem lol i can greatly relate to all of those problems.

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-32697 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Fri, 28 Oct 2011 17:03:25 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-32697 Dear Kay, You're not alone! Many introverts wish they could change, because they think their personality traits are causing problems in their lives. There aren't any answers or quick fixes, especially since making friends at school can be especially difficult for introverts. It seems like the most popular kids are extroverts, and the shy quiet kids are nobodies. I was one of those shy quiet kids, and I always reminded myself that most successful people are often introverts! That may not help you right now in school, but hold on to it for the future... I wrote this article for you: <a href="http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/when-you-cant-think-of-anything-to-say-connecting-with-people/" rel="nofollow">When You Can’t Think of Anything to Say - Connecting With People</a> I hope it helps, and welcome your thoughts here or there. Blessings, Laurie Dear Kay,

You’re not alone! Many introverts wish they could change, because they think their personality traits are causing problems in their lives.

There aren’t any answers or quick fixes, especially since making friends at school can be especially difficult for introverts. It seems like the most popular kids are extroverts, and the shy quiet kids are nobodies.

I was one of those shy quiet kids, and I always reminded myself that most successful people are often introverts! That may not help you right now in school, but hold on to it for the future…

I wrote this article for you:

When You Can’t Think of Anything to Say – Connecting With People

I hope it helps, and welcome your thoughts here or there.

Blessings,
Laurie

]]> By: Kay http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-30697 Kay Wed, 19 Oct 2011 10:23:52 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-30697 Hi Laurie, thanks for your articles about introvert. My problem of being an introvert is that I have problem connecting with people. Every time when I go to school I see my classmates, I really want to talk to them and make friends. So I would say "Hi" but after that, my head is always blank I couldn't think of anything to say. I don't know how to make small talks. It always amaze me to see those extroverted people, they seem always can come up so many things to talk about while I always feel like I'm just a total blank... I don't like to be an introvert. I hope I can be more outgoing. Is there any way to change? Hi Laurie, thanks for your articles about introvert. My problem of being an introvert is that I have problem connecting with people. Every time when I go to school I see my classmates, I really want to talk to them and make friends. So I would say “Hi” but after that, my head is always blank I couldn’t think of anything to say. I don’t know how to make small talks. It always amaze me to see those extroverted people, they seem always can come up so many things to talk about while I always feel like I’m just a total blank… I don’t like to be an introvert. I hope I can be more outgoing. Is there any way to change?

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-21924 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Tue, 14 Jun 2011 22:59:41 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-21924 Thanks for your comments! Geeta, I wrote this article for you: <a href="http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/best-jobs-people-who-like-to-be-alone-introverts-personality-traits/" rel="nofollow">Best Jobs for People Who Like to Be Alone…Introverts!</a> I'm sorry I missed everyone else's comments...if you have any questions about unhappy introverts or when introverted personality traits cause problems, please let me know here. I promise I'll respond! Blessings, Laurie Thanks for your comments!

Geeta, I wrote this article for you:

Best Jobs for People Who Like to Be Alone…Introverts!

I’m sorry I missed everyone else’s comments…if you have any questions about unhappy introverts or when introverted personality traits cause problems, please let me know here. I promise I’ll respond!

Blessings,
Laurie

]]> By: Geeta Chhabria http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-21891 Geeta Chhabria Tue, 14 Jun 2011 09:00:04 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-21891 hi, I am an introvert, i do feel tensed if i am suddenly asked to tell something about my self. I do well when i am prepared with my answers. i dont like to talk to people around. Moreover i dont know what job suits introvert people. i dont stay in a job more that 6 months as i feel depressed, i feel low, less energetic. that makes me leave a job every 6 months. please help me. guide me which kind of jobs are good for introvert people thanks hi,

I am an introvert, i do feel tensed if i am suddenly asked to tell something about my self. I do well when i am prepared with my answers. i dont like to talk to people around. Moreover i dont know what job suits introvert people. i dont stay in a job more that 6 months as i feel depressed, i feel low, less energetic. that makes me leave a job every 6 months. please help me. guide me which kind of jobs are good for introvert people

thanks

]]> By: bobby http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-20601 bobby Sun, 15 May 2011 23:46:56 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-20601 I don't think the hygiene one is accurate. I'm a total introvert but I take very good care of myself; not for others (although of course, I do care what they think as well) but for myself. I just don't feel comfortable if I don't brush my teeth twice a day, shower every day, floss every day, or wear clean clothes every day (even though some people say reusing clothes twice is better). I don’t think the hygiene one is accurate. I’m a total introvert but I take very good care of myself; not for others (although of course, I do care what they think as well) but for myself. I just don’t feel comfortable if I don’t brush my teeth twice a day, shower every day, floss every day, or wear clean clothes every day (even though some people say reusing clothes twice is better).

]]> By: Praveen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-17828 Praveen Sun, 06 Mar 2011 16:21:31 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-17828 I'ma bit introvert,but I have coourage to talk and do several things even extrovertic giants around me fear to do.But I can't keep relation to girls.I'm 22 years old and I had't even spend a little time along with a girl.I have strong desire to talk to them,but my words drops as I start talking and body faints.I can't even approach a girl who have shown love towards me. I’ma bit introvert,but I have coourage to talk and do several things even extrovertic giants around me fear to do.But I can’t keep relation to girls.I’m 22 years old and I had’t even spend a little time along with a girl.I have strong desire to talk to them,but my words drops as I start talking and body faints.I can’t even approach a girl who have shown love towards me.

]]> By: EdgeyH http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-17795 EdgeyH Sat, 05 Mar 2011 18:41:00 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-17795 Hi there I'm the most introverted person anyone could ever find. I'm on a team and I am forced to spend ALOT of time with them. Sometimes I get so overwhelemed, by being around so many people that I get weird and uncomfortable. The entire group of people like everyone to be one group, but frankly I am not OK with that. I can never get a word in edge wise and it seems like they all think I am dumb and have nothing to say. when spend time one on one however, I can always think of tons of things to say and that person is usually confused by how I act because I never act that way n a group of people. Anyways, my inability to e myself in a huge group of people has caused them to think that I don't want to hang around them and that I'm just plain weird. Also, I feel stupid because there's this one person that I really enjoy spending time with, but when the entire group is there I NEVER get to talk to them. when everyone is around, it feels impossible to be myself and to ENJOY myself and mostly to spend time with that person that I enjoy spending time with. Also, sometimes that person wants me to talk to them and open up to them and I want to but it's been really difficult to, and this past week, I barely talked to that person, and I left without speaking to them and I feel bad because I really want to open up to them and I want to have a good relationship, but when everyone's around it's way too overwhelming for me. I think now they might be hurt because it seems like I don't want to have a relationship with them or they think that I don't trust them, but I do with all my hear but for some reason it's so hard to muster up the courage to go against my feelings of running somewhere where I can be alone :( Hi there
I’m the most introverted person anyone could ever find. I’m on a team and I am forced to spend ALOT of time with them. Sometimes I get so overwhelemed, by being around so many people that I get weird and uncomfortable. The entire group of people like everyone to be one group, but frankly I am not OK with that. I can never get a word in edge wise and it seems like they all think I am dumb and have nothing to say. when spend time one on one however, I can always think of tons of things to say and that person is usually confused by how I act because I never act that way n a group of people. Anyways, my inability to e myself in a huge group of people has caused them to think that I don’t want to hang around them and that I’m just plain weird.
Also, I feel stupid because there’s this one person that I really enjoy spending time with, but when the entire group is there I NEVER get to talk to them. when everyone is around, it feels impossible to be myself and to ENJOY myself and mostly to spend time with that person that I enjoy spending time with. Also, sometimes that person wants me to talk to them and open up to them and I want to but it’s been really difficult to, and this past week, I barely talked to that person, and I left without speaking to them and I feel bad because I really want to open up to them and I want to have a good relationship, but when everyone’s around it’s way too overwhelming for me. I think now they might be hurt because it seems like I don’t want to have a relationship with them or they think that I don’t trust them, but I do with all my hear but for some reason it’s so hard to muster up the courage to go against my feelings of running somewhere where I can be alone :(

]]> By: Nigel Clarke http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/the-unhappy-introvert-when-introverted-personality-traits-cause-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-16860 Nigel Clarke Sat, 29 Jan 2011 17:47:03 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=1802#comment-16860 Reading some of the articles and taking the test has helped me immensly just to realise there are other people around who think like me.I know friends and family worry about me sometimes but I consider myself a strong charachter and that is what I portray so they are apprehensive about approaching me when it comes to discussing personal matters I seem to have put up a barrier around myself that only the few can penetrate :-) Reading some of the articles and taking the test has helped me immensly just to realise there are other people around who think like me.I know friends and family worry about me sometimes but I consider myself a strong charachter and that is what I portray so they are apprehensive about approaching me when it comes to discussing personal matters I seem to have put up a barrier around myself that only the few can penetrate :-)

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