The Best Songs for Broken Hearts – Music to Heal Heartache

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What Are the Best Songs For Broken Hearts? It Depends...

The best songs for broken hearts soothe your soul and heal your heartache. Music can help you let go of someone you love, get over a betrayal, stomp out your anger, and survive heartbreak.

And the best songs for heartache are ones that meet you where you’re at – whether you’re furious, defeated, crushed, or just so sad because you feel like you’re missing a big piece of yourself.

“Divorce is like amputation,” says Margaret Atwood. “You survive, but there is less of you.”

Healing after heartbreak isn’t just about moving “onwards and upwards” — it’s about saying good-bye to your old way of life and starting a new chapter! New releases like Sheryl Crow’s 100 Miles From Memphis might be good music for a broken heart because it’s distracting, which can be healthy.

But when it comes to surviving a broken heart, I like the ”Golden Oldies” because they’re familiar and comforting. Certain songs resonate with my soul — which is what music that heals heartache is all about!

Here, I’ve rounded up the best CDs and songs that will help you heal heartache, from Michael Buble to Avril Lavigne… 

Music to Heal Heartache – The Best Songs for Broken Hearts

What stage of heartbreak are you at? If you’re still crying and healing, then you may want to listen to Toni Braxton’s “Un-Break My Heart” or Jewel’s “You Were Meant for Me.” Those breakup songs are definitely music for healing a broken heart.





If you’re ready to survive heartbreak and let go of someone you love, then you might be ready for Nancy Sinatra’s “These Books Were Made for Walking” or Gloria Gaynor’s “I Will Survive.” Those are different types of breakup songs – but they’re still music that heals heartache!

Destiny’s Child: Survivor/Independent Woman - This one of the best breakup songs ever because it’s all about how much smarter, wiser, richer, more successful, better, and more free she is. The best CD for a broken heart is one that focuses on the future. Hope, faith, sunshine, and blue skies ahead…

Avril Lavigne’s My Happy Ending – “So much for my happy ending” sings Lavigne. We’ve all been there baby — but have you ever heard this saying? “One tear met another tear floating down the river. Said the first tear, ‘I’m the tear of the woman who lost her lover.’ The second tear said, ‘I’m the tear of the woman who found him.’” To help you let go of someone you love, remember that whoever found him is probably shedding tears, too! Anyway, Lavigne’s breakup song is music for healing a broken heart.

Jewel’s You Were Meant for Me –  Sometimes you don’t want a breakup song that reminds you of the future and happiness without your partner…sometimes you want to cling to the hope that you’ll be together again. Jewel’s breakup song is music for healing broken hearts, because it focuses on the certainty that you’re meant to be together.

Toni Braxton’s Un-Break My Heart – This is another great song that helps you get over a broken heart by encouraging the tears to flow. “Un-Break My Heart” is a breakup song – definitely music for healing a broken heart because it lets you immerse yourself in sorrow, which sometimes you have to do in order to heal.

Christine Aguilera’s Fighter – The opposite of encouraging tears to heal, Aguilera’s “Fighter” is all about getting stronger, working harder, getting faster, being wiser, and growing a thicker skin. The song lyrics focus on “thanks for making me a fighter” – which is a great way to heal a broken heart and let go of someone you love.

Sinead O’Connor’s Nothing Compares to You – This isn’t exactly the most empowering song, but it could be a good breakup song because it lets you soak in your misery (which isn’t always a bad thing). “It’s been so lonely without you here,” sings Sinead. “Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling.” Yes, I recommend letting yourself wail and weep and mourn what you’ve lost – it’s music for healing a broken heart.

Lara Fabian’s I Will Love Again – This is a great song for a broken heart because Fabian acknowledges the pain (“Though my heart is breaking”) and vows to love again. She sings of moving on, breathing again, feeling again, and loving again…even if it takes a lifetime.

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For a list of reader suggestions for songs for broken hearts, read The Best Breakup Songs.

Writing about your feelings and experiences is the best therapy - I welcome your comments and I read them all! But I regretfully can't offer personal advice.



Category: Breakup Survival Tips, Emotional Health Tips, Love & Relationships

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  1. kait says:

    forget it – breaking benjamin

    over – lindsay lohan

    if you come back to me – bowling for soup

    a friendly goodbye – bowling for soup

    always a good few tracks :D
    these helped me alot.

  2. Nedira says:

    “Think Twice” by Celine Dion is my favorite.

    I really feel it.

  3. Chris says:

    Wow, it’s like you stole my mp3 player and posted the saddest songs. This is a great list! My favorite would have to be Avril Lavigne “so much for my happy ending”.

  4. Joseph says:

    So much for Pretending by Bryan White – This song slims 5 years down to 4 minutes for me

    How do you like me now by Toby Keith – This is a very uplifting kinda haha I’m gonna be ok and prove it to you kinda song

    and Perfect by Smashing Pumpkins – This song kinda puts it in a prospective of it’s over but maybe next life we will get it right.

  5. roy says:

    these song really help me

  6. ..... says:

    Im in love with my best friend… he broked my heart. i recomend
    un-break my heart by tony braxton

  7. Veronica says:

    You’re not sorry-Taylor Swift

  8. Heather says:

    PS. I’m still not over you – Rihanna

    ^^ depends on your mood

    and broken hearted girl – Beyonce

    :) hope that helps x

  9. These are great songs for healing broken hearts — I especially like the wide range of songs on your playlist, Morgan. Everyone from the Beatles to Avril Lavigne :-)

    Elly has a great list as well…

    Now that I think about it, the songs in this comment section put my original list of heartbreak songs to shame! Thanks for the tips, you guys.

  10. Morgan says:

    After my very first boyfriend broke up with me, I made a playlist which I listened to over and over. Here are a few of the songs on it.

    Keep Holding On – Avril Lavigne
    Used To – Chris Daughtry
    Hero – Enrique Iglesias
    Come Clean – Hillary Duff
    You Raise Me Up – Josh Groban
    Because of You – Kelly Clarkson
    I Hope You Dance – Lee Ann Womack
    All Good Things Come to an End – Nelly Furtado
    Let It Be – Beatles
    You Can’t Hurry Love – Phil Collins

  11. Sarah says:

    Apologize- One Republic
    Carrie Underwood – Some Hearts
    White Horse – Taylor Swift

  12. Dipesh R says:

    Brian Mcknight – One Last Cry
    worth listening song….

  13. Laurie PK says:

    Thanks for sharing your best songs for broken hearts, my friends!

  14. ameylia says:

    mika-happy ending
    kelly clarkson-breakaway

  15. Elly says:

    Agree with Shelly. It really depends on your case/situation. My case is my ex broke us up (cos he’s still in love with his ex and his friends hate me for spending more time with him than them like he used to) followed by his trash talking behind my back. The most recent one is: he trash talked about me to the guy I’ve been hanging out with. Now the new guy got intimidated and has kept his distance. Anyhoo:

    You’ll See by Madonna
    My Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne
    What Goes Around Comes Around by Justin Timberlake (one of my faves)
    Better Off Alone by Katharine McPhee
    Deep Inside of You by Third Eye Blind
    All Good Things by Mandy Moore
    The Scientist by Coldplay
    White Flag by Dido
    See Ya by Atomic Kitten
    I Never Really Loved You Anyway by The Corrs
    Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood
    Wake Up Call by Maroon 5
    Bottom of The Ocean by Miley Cyrus
    One of These Days by Michelle Branch
    Be Be Your Love by Rachael Yamagata
    Soon by Leann Rimes
    I Quit by Hepburn
    and most possibly, in my case, Hollaback Girl by Gwen Stefani

    x

  16. Reema says:

    Other good songs are:

    “Over You” by Acceptance
    “Starts with Goodbye” by Carrie Underwood
    “Lok at Me Now” by DJ Jessy

  17. LauriePK says:

    You’re right – I don’t listen to country music (though when I hear it, I enjoy it!).

    Thanks for the suggestions, C!

    And everyone else who commented — thanks for sharing your best songs for broken hearts…I know people are reading this article, and I bet they appreciate your input. Music really does soothe your soul and help you let go of people out love….music can heal.

  18. C. says:

    All good songs to break up by, but obviously, the person who wrote the above article, as well as the people commenting, are not into country music.
    Hank Snow’s “I Don’t Hurt Anymore” is a real good, feel good song for after a break up, as well as his “I’m Movin’ On” and “The Golden Rocket”, both very dated train songs.

    Also, during the “crying in my beer” phase of a break up, there are countless older country songs that address the issue.
    You wanna cry? Boy, can you find some doozys!
    Just about anything by Hank Williams, Sr., such as “Your Cheatin’ Heart”, or “I Can’t Help It If I’m Still In Love With You”.

    From a lady’s perspective, try Kitty Wells, Tammy Wynette, Loretta Lynn and others. Believe me, you’ll find plenty of great break up songs no matter what phase you’re in.

    It doesn’t matter so much how a song is played, just listen to the words. That’s why they call it the “blues”……..

  19. Joe says:

    Good songs for heart break

    “Growing up to do” By Joshua Radin
    “Violens” by Joey Cape
    “Moving On” by Deals Gone Bad
    “Wasted Days” by The Slackers

  20. Tina says:

    another great song for a broken heart is:

    dana glover- it is you

    i love it and i love the way it makes me feel.

    love t xxx

  21. Carly says:

    “Out From Under” by Britney Spears

  22. brittany says:

    over it by katherine mcphee

  23. me says:

    “Walk Away” by Ben Harper
    “Where I Stood” by Missy Higgins

  24. Shelly says:

    “Better in Time” by Leona Lewis is one of my faves as well.
    But “Not Gon’ Cry” by Mary J. Blige is one of the BEST.
    “Since U Been Gone” Kelly Clarkson too.
    Depends on your situation though, I guess.

  25. Vida says:

    Good article! The song that has helped me get thru my pending divorce is “Better in Time” by Leona Lewis. The lyrics are so very true when you are no longer with someone you have been with most of your life. I recommend it to anyone trying to move on.

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