Comments on: Surviving a Breakup – 10 Tips for Moving On When Your Relationship Ends

By: Kate A

Kate A — Tue, 15 May 2012 14:28:40 +0000

Dear Angie, wihtout knowing all the details of the situation… it is difficult to tell you anything at length. I would say do your best to keep your head up and fill your life with good. Take time out to enjoy the simple pleasures life has to offer. Be supportive to the man behind bars… but dont wait around for him… do your best to move forward. And as for the business aspect, get another/other foreman… You have to think of yourself as completely in charge, and take responsibility for the company and its success. You can do it!!!

By: mrpbros

mrpbros — Thu, 10 May 2012 16:22:56 +0000

i had a very bad experience over love. I broke up with my girlfriend only bcoz of able to give time spend together. Since last breakup i didn’t made any girlfriend… Its realy painful…

By: Angie

Angie — Thu, 10 May 2012 15:27:39 +0000

My situation I guess is a bit odd and that is why I am having an issue dealing with it. I was dating someone for quite a while, everything was going great. We were still happy to see each other and enjoyed each others company. We were at the point that we discussed moving in together and looked at houses a couple of weeks ago. A month ago we started a business together, so you would think that with everything progressing the way it was it was going great. I spoke to him monday while he was working then we were texting. I got busy with paperwork and several hours sent a text to see how everything was progressing on the job. I got no response. So I figured he’s busy he will get back to me later. Around 11pm at night several hours later did not hear anything from him, not even that the job was completed so I knew if I should bill it out. I called and left a voicemail, but his phone was off. I found it to be odd, but figured batteries dead. The next morning I find out that he was arrested about 10 minutes after our last text for not paying traffic fines and there are several I guess. Not to mention that he was on probation, that I knew nothing about from a DUI three years prior to us meeting. So I know that he ended up with a violation of probation charge also. I have not talked to him since he has been in jail and is still there. I have talked to the jail and caseworker there. I do not know if I should go visit or if I should just do the best to move on. They told me he is probably going to be there for quite a while. My issue other than hurt from the unknown information, is that it is a contracting business and he was the foreman. I do not know what to do with that mess either. This has not only effected me emotionally, but it is effecting my income also at this point. I would love to hear any suggestions or words of encouragement that anyone has. I have never been in this situation and obviously it is not a good one.

By: andreas

andreas — Wed, 02 May 2012 01:11:22 +0000

broken by bill.

not all guys are the same girls can be cruel in allot of ways to people are like that people like to hurt eathor for the fun of it most people dont even know what the are doing till its to late im in the same boat as you onley thing you can do is get stronger and try to move futher write about it about everything you have done with him do it on ur computer or on a paper if ya need to cry then do it cry ur heart out! i hope this helps.

By: Devin

Devin — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 13:23:46 +0000

I think the part about balance is most telling: people don’t realize that staying active physically is a big part of fighting off breakup pain.

By: priya

priya — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 05:46:06 +0000

i was with a guy for 2 yrs..he proposed me first..at that time i was nt agreed to start a love relationship with him.but gradually he convinced me that he loves me very much and will never let me go whatever situation comes…he acted like as if he was very caring..and i believed him..though my parents are very strict but still i brought him to my home to meet my parents.i loved him more than my life.we were like husband and wife.it was going very well till 1 and half year but slowly he started to avoid me..he,who was always calling me and was telling that he cant live without me..started to behave rudely with me..i asked the reason for his rude behavior..if he wants to breakup with me..he answered if you want to go you may..i told please let this relation start again from the beginig..why u r avoiding..he agreed with it but after 1 day he started the same behavr ..i was very hurt..i cried ..this type of relation continued for another half months,, some day ago ,as he was nt calling, i switched of the mobile..he texted me that he want to break up with me and all was my fault he was nt guilty at all.though he always hurt me but still i love him.i cant forget him i cant work .or concentrate on anything..i want breakup but..cant forget him…Help me

By: Tani

Tani — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 08:34:58 +0000

Hey !
Thanks for theese tiips.. i guess ill be needing all o them… He was cheating on me,, n after i found ol out he was feeling sorry and wants me desperately but i cant forget all what happened and want to seperate… had dreams of setting up al with him… but… destiny !
God Bless all!

Tani

By: laura

laura — Sat, 31 Mar 2012 13:27:52 +0000

me and my guy ve been in 3yrs relationship…but tins suddenly changed few months ago.we didnt had any fight or arguement…he just stoped callin…textin…carering e.t.c.i guess its figuer it out urself. i stil cant believe dat for 3yrs i’ve loved a caword who cant be man enough 2 luk me in de eye and say…its over,am inluv wit someone else…i hate myself 4 loving him soo much…i keep wishing tins could get normal like before…am going crazy…i cant even pay attention…..

By: broken by bill..

broken by bill.. — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 21:34:58 +0000

hi all broken girls..
my bf of 3 years just left me about 5 days ago now.. i busted him out while he told me he was only going to a friends house.
after that he never said a word to me just blocked me on his iphone app and that was it!!!
no nothing!!
im so hurt! 3 years ive spent my life by his side and i got lied to so many times! he left me 5 months ago, same thing busted then i got blocked but i guess im the silly 1 that went back for more!
ill never know what ive done to deserve such pain and heartache but he just dose not care! while i sit here balling my eyes out not sleeping not eating he is out laughing with his friends and going out everynight with god knows who!
why do we woman feel so much pain and hurt but they dont!!!???
why do men cheat and lie??
why is it hurting me so much!
i know in my brain he is not good to me or for me but in my heart i love him more than i love anything in this world!!!
please explain!
how can i move on when ive been left in the dark and he has run away and left me in such a mess…
how can i stop loving someone that has broken to the core…
:’(

By: Nicky

Nicky — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 23:39:00 +0000

Me and my boyfriend broke up two days ago and it is devastating to me. I love him sooo much. He is the second man I have actually been in love with, even though I’ve had other relationships. It is crazy…the first one I loved for 3 yrs, it was dysfunctional, and though he told me he loved me constantly, he didn’t show that he did by his actions. Now this man I’ve been with seven months, and he told me he loved me two or three times the entire relationship, but I always believed he did love me because of his actions. But still…it was frustrating that he wouldn’t say it. Finally last week…after months of not asking because I was scared of the answer…I asked him if he loved me or not. He said he didn’t know…that he knew he had at one point but wasn’t sure anymore. He asked to take a month break to think about it. Well, I’m 25 and he is 22, and to me…either you love someone or you don’t and it’s been seven months! That’s plenty of time to think about it! Then days later we are at the st. patricks day parade and I just break down…we end up having this emotional argument on the streets…and he says straight to my face that he doesn’t care about me anymore…
That hurts so much…because I thought he did the entire time…I love him so much and I don’t know what to do with myself now. It’s just so shocking. I’ve never been hurt in this way…I’ve never had someone not even TRY for me.
I keep telling myself I deserve better, I deserve someone more mature, I deserve someone who loves me and would do anything for me…but all I see is his face, and all I want is to go back to what we were two weeks ago…even if it was a lie…