Comments on: Romance Tips – Easy Ways to Show Your Love

By: monica msteven

monica msteven — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:58:50 +0000

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By: lifestyle

lifestyle — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:06:39 +0000

To cultivate kindness is a valuable part of the business of life.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 03:47:51 +0000

Stephen,

Those are lovely — and loving! — things to do for your wife. I’m sure she feels loved…

If my husband and I lived in a colder winter climate, I know I’d find those actions romantic

Laurie

By: Stephen

Stephen — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 12:34:32 +0000

I show my wife I love her by starting her car and scraping it off in the winter. And, I always make sure the tank is full, so she doesn’t have to get gas.

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 03:00:00 +0000

Yes, Joy, I’ve read about love languages — my husband and I took the Love Languages test before we got married! We both still refer to it today, and regularly talk about how we love to be loved.

Thanks for your tips and information — your Joy of Romance company sounds great! And what a clever title, with the play on words

By: Joy Nordenstrom

Joy Nordenstrom — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 20:29:39 +0000

Great post Laurie!

Making sure you know your partner’s love language can also be a wonderful and effective way to fill up your partner’s love quotient. critical for couples to understand when they move from the attraction phase of love to the comfort zone of the attachment phase. In my company, Joy of Romance, Inc., I teach them in almost all of my classes. The five love languages are 1) Acts of Service, 2) Quality Time, 3) Words of Affirmation, 4) Physical Touch and 5) Gifts. In the beginning of a relationship you naturally give love in all of these ways but once you have passed the point of being chemically addicted to your partner and move into your comfort zone, you primarily give love the way you were given love as a kid. If this doesn’t match your partner’s way of receiving love, your efforts could be lost on them and they might not feel the love you are giving them. Make sure you know their love language and they know yours for a thriving and passionate relationship. Create your own special love rituals for one another that highlights your particular love language!

Joy Nordenstrom
Joy of Romance, Inc.
Twitter: @joyofromance
FB Fan Page: Joy of Romance

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 15:50:45 +0000

Thanks for dropping in, Stu!

Are you being sarcastic? That is, did you really think your wife loved doing the laundry? Because my husband thought his mom liked doing housework. I think he assumed that because she did it all the time, she must like it! He was seriously surprised to find out that she’d rather be reading, or gardening, or just relaxing with a cup of coffee…

Anyway, I’m glad you show your wife you love her by vacuuming

By: Stu Gray

Stu Gray — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 05:50:08 +0000

Hey Laurie! I just found this site connected to your Quips and Tips for Writers blog!

On your point about ‘Doing the dishes or other chores’…nobody likes to do ‘chores’ – this was news to me – I thought my wife loved doing the laundry! I don’t’ like vacuuming…but, if our floors get gross, I take out the vacuum and give it a go… because it is more important to me, in that moment, than it is to my wife…

In the process, it shows her love because I have cared enough to vacuum without any prompting! Bonus!

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:52:27 +0000

Thanks for your comments! Those little things – even just doing a load of laundry or reaching out for a hug and snuggle on a busy day – make a huge difference in relationships.

Another way to show your love, which I forgot to include, is saying THANK YOU. I always try and thank my husband when he does things for me, even if he does them all the time. And, I love when he thanks me for cooking dinner or baking cookies because it makes me feel appreciated and loved.

By: Gini Grey

Gini Grey — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:41:59 +0000

These are great Laurie! I love the idea of putting the quote in your partner’s lunch, briefcase etc. I did that years ago by writing short “I love you” notes on heart shaped peices of paper and left them in places my hubby would find. I don’t think it meant that much to him though – was more of what I’d like to receive, so one day he wrote me a love letter, telling me everything he loved and liked about me – I cherish that. I’ve since had to find out what he views as expressions of love and do those things for him (he loves it when I make him home made soups or pizza).

Thanks,

Gini