Comments on: Love or Infatuation? 5 Ways to Tell If It Could Be True Love

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 23:05:51 +0000

Hi Kerrie,

I’ve had plenty of crushes on guys out of desperation — and have stayed in relationships out of both desperation and infatuation! It’s hard to break those relationships off because we think the right guy won’t come along, or we’re too old to wait for him.

But, it’s much worse in the long run to stay in a relationship that isn’t right for us, versus waiting longer for someone who is a good match.

Best wishes with this new guy….I hope you can see clearly if he’s the one for you or not.

Laurie

By: Kerrie

Kerrie — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 13:13:40 +0000

Thank you, this helps. I’ve just started dating a guy and I keep thinking that he’s not the one, but I can totally see us staying together just because there’s nobody else on the horizon for either of us. Thinking in terms of love versus infatuation versus desperation helps.

- Kerrie

By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen

Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 03:51:37 +0000

Thanks for dropping in, Waiting4TrueLove…and I’m glad to hear that you’re waiting for the real thing! I hope it comes sooner rather than later

By: Waiting4TrueLove

Waiting4TrueLove — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 15:10:48 +0000

Even when you know it’s not true love, it’s just infatuation, it’s still hard to let go. I’ve been infatuated with people several times but never been in true love. Thanks for these tips, they help to figure it out. It’s not just about how you feel!

I’m waiting for true love, no matter how long it takes.

By: Mackeran

Mackeran — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 00:13:16 +0000

I liked it. So much useful material. I read with great interest.