This might be more easily answered once you start the actually interviewing and hiring process. Talking to different caregivers, and figuring out if you want to hire through an agency or privately, will help you determine if you should give the caregiver a key or not.

It might make you feel more comfortable to arrange for her to visit when you’re home for the first few weeks or months (whether you hire privately or through a caregiving agency). Once you and your mother get to know your caregiver, then you’ll be able to decide if a key is the best route.

Take it one step at a time. I suggest calling caregiving agencies to ask about rates and the process. You could also ask your friends, family, colleagues, church members, neighbors, etc for referrals to good caregivers — this is one of the best, least risky way to hire someone!

I hope this helps, and wish you and your mom the best.

Laurie

Good question.

I’d suggest waiting until you’ve screened a few candidates/caregivers yourself, then ask them to come back for a second meeting with your father. If your dad really likes the first caregiver, then there may be no need to meet the rest.

It’s important to include him in the process of hiring a caregiver, unless he’s unable.

Good luck — I hope you find the right caregiver quickly and easily!

Laurie