Comments on: How to Overcome Fear and Anxiety http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/quipstipsachievinggoals/career/how-to-overcome-fear-and-anxiety/ Where inspirational quotations meet practical life tips, and live happily ever after. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:06:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/quipstipsachievinggoals/career/how-to-overcome-fear-and-anxiety/comment-page-1/#comment-7443 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:42:37 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=799#comment-7443 Dashini, I'm sorry for the situation you're in -- it sounds very difficult! I don't know anything about Singapore or Malaysia or studying there, so I have nothing to suggest. Actually, I do suggest that you talk to the people in your school further! Find out what the school fees are and if you can get a job to pay for them. And if you can't find the money for the school fees, perhaps going back to where you're from in Malaysia will be good for you! I don't know anything about your situation, but I do know that sometimes the "worst" thing happens to us, and it turns out to be not so bad after all. There might be some positive aspects to going back, especially as it seems you're not getting along too well with your auntie. I hope this helps a little, I wish you good luck. Laurie Dashini,

I’m sorry for the situation you’re in — it sounds very difficult! I don’t know anything about Singapore or Malaysia or studying there, so I have nothing to suggest.

Actually, I do suggest that you talk to the people in your school further! Find out what the school fees are and if you can get a job to pay for them.

And if you can’t find the money for the school fees, perhaps going back to where you’re from in Malaysia will be good for you! I don’t know anything about your situation, but I do know that sometimes the “worst” thing happens to us, and it turns out to be not so bad after all. There might be some positive aspects to going back, especially as it seems you’re not getting along too well with your auntie.

I hope this helps a little, I wish you good luck.

Laurie

]]> By: dashineni http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/quipstipsachievinggoals/career/how-to-overcome-fear-and-anxiety/comment-page-1/#comment-7408 dashineni Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:09:58 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=799#comment-7408 hi i m dashini .... i m poor gal i born in Malaysia but come to Singapore to study .... how to study well ... i can but my auntie sometimes scold me in badwords... And whn I go somewhere n come late , my auntie say tht i my good for nothing ... i will tell them i will come late before going to a place... i m a good gal not like others , they will go to pub .. if i talk to her why she is doin like this , she don't reply n just murmur something n just back off... in my school they said tht they only help me for this year then next year i have to go back to Malaysia to study if i can't pay my fees.... wht can i do ...In Singapore they only help for Singaporeans not for foreigners ..... hi i m dashini …. i m poor gal i born in Malaysia but come to Singapore to study …. how to study well … i can but my auntie sometimes scold me in badwords… And whn I go somewhere n come late , my auntie say tht i my good for nothing … i will tell them i will come late before going to a place… i m a good gal not like others , they will go to pub .. if i talk to her why she is doin like this , she don’t reply n just murmur something n just back off… in my school they said tht they only help me for this year then next year i have to go back to Malaysia to study if i can’t pay my fees…. wht can i do …In Singapore they only help for Singaporeans not for foreigners …..

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/quipstipsachievinggoals/career/how-to-overcome-fear-and-anxiety/comment-page-1/#comment-7390 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:04:23 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=799#comment-7390 Hi Dashineni, I don't know how old you are, but if you live with your grandmom, you must be a minor. And, unfortunately, this means you might not be able to do much about her rules. However, that said, I do suggest that you talk to your grandmom about why she doesn't want you talk to boys on the telephone. She might be afraid or anxious about something, and it might be good to find that out! If you know what she's worried about, then you can reassure her or help her cope with her fears. I also suggest compromising with her about stuff like the length of your phone calls, whether she's in the room, and even which boys you can talk to. If she knows you're only talking for 15 minutes with her right there, then she might be more likely to let you talk to boys. Try these tips out, and let me know how it goes! Laurie Hi Dashineni,

I don’t know how old you are, but if you live with your grandmom, you must be a minor. And, unfortunately, this means you might not be able to do much about her rules.

However, that said, I do suggest that you talk to your grandmom about why she doesn’t want you talk to boys on the telephone. She might be afraid or anxious about something, and it might be good to find that out! If you know what she’s worried about, then you can reassure her or help her cope with her fears.

I also suggest compromising with her about stuff like the length of your phone calls, whether she’s in the room, and even which boys you can talk to. If she knows you’re only talking for 15 minutes with her right there, then she might be more likely to let you talk to boys.

Try these tips out, and let me know how it goes!

Laurie

]]> By: dashineni http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/quipstipsachievinggoals/career/how-to-overcome-fear-and-anxiety/comment-page-1/#comment-7338 dashineni Tue, 27 Oct 2009 07:35:38 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=799#comment-7338 i m dashini here .... my grandmom don let me talk to a boy in telephone ... they think i will not be good if i talk to a guy..... One day , i was having a phone number n it was a boy's number.. My grandmom ask me who is it i say is my frend... then she ask wht frend i cant say tht is a boy.... so i lied its a gal.... then she ask me to bring the phone to her.... then he hanged the phone...after tht she was saying y i m makin frend with a boy...... i was so scared wht if she tell my aunt .... nobody in my family is patience.... Wht can i do ? i m dashini here …. my grandmom don let me talk to a boy in telephone … they think i will not be good if i talk to a guy…..
One day , i was having a phone number n it was a boy’s number..
My grandmom ask me who is it i say is my frend… then she ask wht frend i cant say tht is a boy…. so i lied its a gal…. then she ask me to bring the phone to her…. then he hanged the phone…after tht she was saying y i m makin frend with a boy…… i was so scared wht if she tell my aunt …. nobody in my family is patience….
Wht can i do ?

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