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Most Popular Personality Articles, Tips, and Tests

My most popular personality articles revolve around introverts. I love hearing from readers who thought they were weird but learned they just have introverted personality traits!

These articles are popular because they reveal how personality traits affect our lives, careers, relationships, and even how we handle money. Check ‘em out – and tell me if you learned anything about yourself.

Most Popular Personality Articles

Are You an Introvert? A Test for Introverted Personality Traits is a list of 29 questions about your behavior, habits, thought patterns, and conversation style. The scoring on this personality test is quick and easy, and will help you figure out your level of introversion. Perhaps even more interesting are the reader comments – so many people had no idea they were introverts until they took this test!

That test for introversion is from a book called The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World by Marti Olsen Laney. It’s a fantastic resource for shy, quiet people who want to learn more about their personalities



How to Find the Best Career for Shy, Quiet Personality Types

is one of my favorite personality articles, because it helps people match jobs with their personalities. For instance, I’m a writer, blogger, and Big Brothers Mentoring Coordinator – and all three of those jobs suit my personality perfectly. I love being alone (I’m an introvert!), can work independently, and am self-motivated. And even though I mostly prefer to be by myself, I really enjoy talking to people and helping them solve their problems – which is valuable in a social work position.

If your personality traits are prohibiting you from enjoying your job or coworkers, read 200 Best Jobs for Introverts.

30 Famous Introverts is a popular personality article partly because it’s about famous people and partly because it shows us we’re not alone. I find it fascinating that famous people aren’t necessarily extroverts – some famous people find the spotlight draining and tiring. Acting isn’t just about being in the spotlight, it’s about art, talent, and tapping into your emotional side. So just because a person is famous, doesn’t mean they’re outgoing or comfortable being the center of attention.

How to Be You When Your Family Wants You to be Someone Else isn’t one of my most popular personality articles, but it contains some pretty good tips for being yourself. Sometimes I struggle with that, even though my family doesn’t pressure me to be someone else. I wrote the article for a reader whose family always put her down and couldn’t accept her for who she was.

There you have it – my most popular personality articles, tips and tests. Now for something different but related…

The Highly Sensitive Person – A Not-So-Well Known Personality Type

Highly sensitive people aren’t necessarily introverts, but they share many of the same traits and characteristics. Highly sensitive people are often described as “oversensitive”, “scaredy-cats” or “inhibited.”

If you startle easily, avoid violent movies or TV shows, and tend to be extremely sensitive to pain, you may be a highly sensitive person. If other people’s moods affect you and you’re shaken by upsetting or overwhelming situations, then maybe you’re a highly sensitive person.

Being highly sensitive isn’t bad, good, unhealthy, or healthy: it’s just one way of being in the world. The more you know about highly sensitive personality traits, the better you’ll adjust to the people and situations around you.

The Highly Sensitive Person

In The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You, Dr. Elaine Aron offers a detailed description of the characteristics of highly sensitive people. Whether you work with someone who is supersensitive or you think you yourself are highly sensitive or “oversensitive”, knowing about those personality traits can provide insight into daily life and interactions. Knowing about this not-so-popular personality type can help you deal with them better because you understand how they feel.

Dr. Aron says highly sensitive people aren’t to be confused with introverted, inhibited, or shy people (though similarities exist). Highly sensitive people have a more sensitive nervous system – it’s a physiological as well as a psychological condition. Basically, highly sensitive people are more susceptible to external stimulation from sights, sounds, and even vibrations. Introverts may not be as sensitive.

Highly sensitive people are deeply affected by lights, strange odors, clutter, and loud noises. They startle easily and take longer to “come down” from long days, conflicts with friends or family, or stressful days at work. Highly sensitive people can’t tolerate as much action, light, or noise as other people can. In this way, their personality traits are different than the personality traits of introverts. Highly sensitive people are better at spotting errors – and better at avoiding them, too.

What do you think about these personality types – highly sensitive or introverted? Comments welcome below!

For a more complete list of personality articles – but not necessarily my most popular ones – go to Articles About Introverts and Introverted Personality Traits.

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  1. Laurie says:

    Hi Lindsay,

    Great question — and the answer is yes, introverts can have relationships!

    It’s easier if they’re in love with a fellow introvert because their personality traits are compatible, but an introvert-extrovert relationship can work if both partners are self-aware and willing to accept their differences. Not CHANGE who they are, just work with each other :-)

    I wrote this article for you:

    Introverts in Love With Extroverts – Can Your Relationship Work?

    I hope it helps – let me know what you think.

    All good things,
    Laurie

  2. LindsAy says:

    I was wondering if introverts can have relationships? I recently was in a relationship and i felt my introvertness was taking over. I wanted to be alone most of the time. I believe he was an extreme extrovert and he always wanted me to talk.

  3. Misha says:

    Wow, I never knew that I was an introvert and highly sensitive! Recently I haven’t stopped learning new stuff about myself… this is great, thank you!

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