Comments on: How to Stop Cheating on Your Spouse http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/ Got goals? Need a push in the right direction? You've come to the right place! Thu, 24 May 2012 06:38:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: I'm_just_me http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-26972 I'm_just_me Mon, 26 Sep 2011 01:53:22 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-26972 It is so, so sad that infidelity is so prevailent in relationships, however I know that when I get married if my wife ever cheated on me I would find a way to forgive her as I'm equally againt divorce (except for certain reasons ie violence, or the children in danger etc). I just don't understand how people get tempted by someone other than their wife. Love, intimacy, commitment, trust, honesty, knowing that you get to share the rest of your life with ONE person, not to mention your wedding vows if you are married or meaningless sex with a random stranger not really a hard choice is it. "Oh but I was in a sexless marriage" So what? Firstly what does or doesn't happen in the bedroom is between you and your wife and secondly not everything is about sex, what about love? If I had to choose between love and sex it would be love every single time and people like this really, really annoy me because they have got everything, an amazing wife, (possibly) wonderful children, everything I have ever dreamed of and they are willing to throw it all away like it doesn't matter, it just makes me so upset that they are so self centered their wives and children deserve so much more than cheating scum, they are worth so, so much more than being treated like s**t -Aaron It is so, so sad that infidelity is so prevailent in relationships, however I know that when I get married if my wife ever cheated on me I would find a way to forgive her as I’m equally againt divorce (except for certain reasons ie violence, or the children in danger etc). I just don’t understand how people get tempted by someone other than their wife. Love, intimacy, commitment, trust, honesty, knowing that you get to share the rest of your life with ONE person, not to mention your wedding vows if you are married or meaningless sex with a random stranger not really a hard choice is it. “Oh but I was in a sexless marriage” So what? Firstly what does or doesn’t happen in the bedroom is between you and your wife and secondly not everything is about sex, what about love? If I had to choose between love and sex it would be love every single time and people like this really, really annoy me because they have got everything, an amazing wife, (possibly) wonderful children, everything I have ever dreamed of and they are willing to throw it all away like it doesn’t matter, it just makes me so upset that they are so self centered their wives and children deserve so much more than cheating scum, they are worth so, so much more than being treated like s**t -Aaron

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-26763 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Thu, 22 Sep 2011 16:18:55 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-26763 Thanks for your comment - I'm glad to hear from someone who thinks so lowly of cheaters! Most of the people I hear from are coping with cheating in their relationships, which is so disheartening and sad. I especially can't believe I had to write an article on how to stop cheating on your spouse. Isn't that sad? Thanks for your comment – I’m glad to hear from someone who thinks so lowly of cheaters! Most of the people I hear from are coping with cheating in their relationships, which is so disheartening and sad.

I especially can’t believe I had to write an article on how to stop cheating on your spouse. Isn’t that sad?

]]> By: I'm_just_me http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-26719 I'm_just_me Wed, 21 Sep 2011 22:49:24 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-26719 I hope you don't mind me posting on here because I'm a 22 year old guy and I'm not religious but I just wanted to say I compleatly agree that people shouldn't need things to tell how to be faithful. Infidelity, whether you are married or just dating absolutly sickens me to the point that I can't even read a book or watch a tv programme or a film if the characters (or the actors in real life) cheat, it just makes me feel physically sick and I have to get as far away from it as possible. Needless to say I don't have any friends who cheat because cheaters are dispicable and aren't worth s**t to me. I hope you don’t mind me posting on here because I’m a 22 year old guy and I’m not religious but I just wanted to say I compleatly agree that people shouldn’t need things to tell how to be faithful. Infidelity, whether you are married or just dating absolutly sickens me to the point that I can’t even read a book or watch a tv programme or a film if the characters (or the actors in real life) cheat, it just makes me feel physically sick and I have to get as far away from it as possible. Needless to say I don’t have any friends who cheat because cheaters are dispicable and aren’t worth s**t to me.

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-22253 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Tue, 28 Jun 2011 15:55:55 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-22253 Thanks for your comments. Yes, Sally, I agree that it is sad that we need articles on how to stop cheating in marriage. I still don't know if I believe in the whole "sexual addiction" thing, but some psychologists say it's very real. Thanks for your comments.

Yes, Sally, I agree that it is sad that we need articles on how to stop cheating in marriage. I still don’t know if I believe in the whole “sexual addiction” thing, but some psychologists say it’s very real.

]]> By: Sally Robinson http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-22207 Sally Robinson Sun, 26 Jun 2011 14:38:27 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-22207 It sickens and saddens me that we need articles that describe how to stop cheating on your spouse. Why can't men just stop being unfaithful? Why can't fidelity be a normal part of being married? It sickens and saddens me that we need articles that describe how to stop cheating on your spouse. Why can’t men just stop being unfaithful? Why can’t fidelity be a normal part of being married?

]]> By: relationship website http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-21159 relationship website Fri, 27 May 2011 15:04:26 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-21159 Cheating is probably the most heartbreaking that oculd ever happen in your relationship. Having a partner that cheats to the opposite sex is just like saying that he disrespects you and your relationship together. First, talk and sort out the problems first. Next, if it seems that no one seems to listen, then end the argument. Relationship problems such as that no need much talk if the other partner doesn't even want it at all. Cheating is probably the most heartbreaking that oculd ever happen in your relationship. Having a partner that cheats to the opposite sex is just like saying that he disrespects you and your relationship together. First, talk and sort out the problems first. Next, if it seems that no one seems to listen, then end the argument. Relationship problems such as that no need much talk if the other partner doesn’t even want it at all.

]]> By: Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-7444 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:05:18 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-7444 I just watched a movie last night -- The Jane Austen Book Club -- that had lots of relationship cheating and "save your marriage" themes. It was a little fluffy, but really drove home the fact that physical or emotional infidelity can destroy people's lives. Yes, marriages can be healed, but the damage is so long-lasting and difficult to overcome. I just watched a movie last night — The Jane Austen Book Club — that had lots of relationship cheating and “save your marriage” themes. It was a little fluffy, but really drove home the fact that physical or emotional infidelity can destroy people’s lives.

Yes, marriages can be healed, but the damage is so long-lasting and difficult to overcome.

]]> By: Jamie London http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/how-to-stop-cheating-on-your-spouse-save-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-7420 Jamie London Fri, 30 Oct 2009 20:49:51 +0000 http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/?p=2254#comment-7420 Good post. Infidelity is obviously one of the most difficult relationship wounds to heal. There are some good tips here. Of course, it takes much time, patience and commitment. However, there is not reason to believe that any relationship, damaged for whatever reason, if there is real respect and concern on the parts of the couple, can't be repaired. You can restore your marrige, you life and get your ex back forever. Good post. Infidelity is obviously one of the most difficult relationship wounds to heal. There are some good tips here. Of course, it takes much time, patience and commitment. However, there is not reason to believe that any relationship, damaged for whatever reason, if there is real respect and concern on the parts of the couple, can’t be repaired. You can restore your marrige, you life and get your ex back forever.

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