The Benefits of Aging, & Why Baby Boomers Aren’t Happy
Think getting old is for the birds? Think again. The most thorough research study ever conducted in the United States shows that the older we get, the happier we are. But, baby boomers in particular aren’t as happy as the rest of us.
First, though, a quip for healthy women:
“You aim for what you want and if you don’t get it, you don’t get it, but if you don’t aim, you don’t get anything.” - Francine Prose.
What are you aiming for in life? Is there a gap between your expectations and your reality? Therein lies the secret of happiness. It’s not necessarily your age that counts - it’s how your reality meets your expectations.
Here are several benefits of aging, why baby boomers aren’t happy, and some wise words from Dr Walter Bortz II, a 77 year old Stanford University Professor of Medicine and author of Living Longer for Dummies (click on the book cover for more info about Bortz’s book).
Baby boomers aren’t as happy as the other generations, reports Yang Yang, Assistant Professor of Sociology at the University of Chicago. Her comprehensive study of happiness was published in the April 2008 issue of the American Sociological Review. Yang also found that African Americans are less happy than whites, men are less happy than women, and happiness levels rise and fall between eras.
Yang’s conclusions stem from “the gold standard of happiness research - responses to questions about contentment with overall life gathered in the General Social Survey of the National Opinion Research Center.” This survey asked a cross section of Americans: “Taken all together, how would you say things are these days-would you say that you are very happy, pretty happy, or not too happy?” Answers were provided in face-to-face interviews of population samples ranging from 1,500 to 3,000 people.
Why Baby Boomers Aren’t Happy
Why are baby boomers less happy than others? “…[that] generation as a group was so large, and their expectations were so great, that not everyone in the group could get what [they] wanted as they aged, due to competition for opportunities,” says Yang. “This could lead to disappointment that could undermine happiness.”
The Benefits of Aging
As time goes by, the differences in happiness levels between age and social cohorts vanish. Aging brings positive psychological characteristics, such as higher self-integration and self-esteem, which could contribute to a better sense of well-being. Access to health care resources becomes more equal as we get older, which makes us happy. Finally, we all experience less social support due to the deaths of family and friends, which equalizes our happiness levels.
How do the 70 year olds feel about aging? It depends who you ask. Dr Walter Bortz II is a 77 year old Stanford University Professor of Medicine and author of Living Longer for Dummies. He says age is a self-fulfilling prophecy: the single most important step in living to be 100 happily is your beliefs. “The benefit of getting older is that your judgment is more stable and you’re less likely to be rash,” he says. “You’ve been there, seen it, and are less likely to be surprised. I’m proud that the new 70 is what 40 used to be.”
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Comment by carol stanley on 13 August 2008:
This all sounds pretty realistic..However why lump a generation as unhappy or even happy…Life is pretty much individual…Ilike the idea of staying healthy..Beats the alternative…So we create a healthy lifestyle, eat well, take care of ourselves..and have abetter chance for a healthy and happy life…carol stanley author of For Kids 59.99 and Over
Comment by Barbara J. Faison on 13 August 2008:
I think having so many options has affected how people view life. I wonder how the millenials and gen x and gen y will feel as they age. As a baby boomer close to the cusp(1962)I see more people dissatisfied with life however many also seem unwilling to recognize who manages life- YOU. If you don’t actively manage life, things just seem to happen.
I think every year brings about a specialness and graciousness that I treasure like a great pair of slippers. Growing older is a natural part of life, being gracious about it is a choice. Truly LIVING life is also a choice.